Expensive vs High End Dating

I’m paraphrasing from an article I read recently about men dating women who are expensive vs. men dating ladies who are high end and the difference between them.

Do you agree? What are some other characteristics that are important in the upscale dating world?

Ladies, what qualities should the men possess?

Looking forward to your thoughts!

Description of an Expensive Date:

Appearance
Very attractive many times blonde; fashion-model or porn-star type (fashion-model type is very slim, porn-star type often has large breast implants)

Education
Doesn’t mention academic credentials, usually not formally educated.

How she attracts men
The ultimate male fantasy

What she has to offer men
Uninhibited sexuality, obvious eye candy, no focus on conversational or intellectual skills

How long do her dates usually last?
A quicker date, like 1-2 hours, no lingering over dinner

Discretion
She encourages “locker room talk” amongst her male suitors. In order to to attract more dating prospects.

Personal Life
Dating a bunch of guys is the basis of her whole existence.

Description of a High End Date

Appearance
Attractive in a more low-key, natural-looking, appeal; not obviously surgically altered

Education
Almost always college educated. Many times with an advanced degree or training.

How she attracts men?
Her individual personal attributes attract individual suitor’s attention.

What she has to offer men?
Exclusivity; a less one-dimensional focus On the physical; wants to create a genuine connection with each suitor (and perhaps has a more sophisticated sexuality); emphasizes intellect and conversational abilities

How long do her dates usually last?
Leisurely dinners, extended time together, travel,

Discretion
Prefers to keep your time together between the two of you. Discourages “locker room talk.”

Personal Life
Multifaceted, has a varied social and personal including a professional job or career. Isn’t just about dating as many guys as possible.

This is a great read for sure. I think it will boil down to the person. Since each guy is different, and has a different view point. I think some will see it differently. Myself, I like long term as to short term, with that said a really good long term partner is going to cost no matter what. If you know this going in, and can build a great relationship, then fine. I personally don't see a problem with seeking different people until you think you found the one you want to spend more time with.

Thanks for your input. I agree. That’s how I came to find my current favorite. He met a bunch of ladies, but luckily now spends most of his time with me.

I Agree I Have a favorite that Mostly just Spends time with me and We enjoy each other not just on a physical but mentally as well. Once you Find someone your connection becomes much much greater and the sexual experience becomes way more heightened.

Exactly, Lia!

Great post Miss B three!!!. I've developed great friendship with a couple of sweet ladies. Just as Lia described!!

And I'm going to also echo what is becoming a recurring theme, my favs know how to dress (dinner out to casual), can carry convo on numourous topics, connects on different levels, lets friendships develop while both maintain perspective, etc. There's more but this is enough to possibly allow long term top spots on dance cards.

It all depends on what the man wants.

This makes sense. I like the article......but I think there could also be a girl in-between both descriptions. Like the best of both worlds. Knowing when and where to do what and how.......just saying.
XOXO
Kami

Kami I agree w/that yes it's all individual preferences though I enjoy the developing friendship's and being casual about the time.

I posted this when posting was a bit more restricted. Maybe we can talk more about it now.

In other words.

Reality vs fantasy for a hooker.

Fantasy= Pretty woman syndrome
Reality= Some fat slob rents you for an hour

Thank you for sharing this thread. I feel like all of this is true but I would like to add that it's definitely a man's preference. Some like them pretty but not talkative or opinionated. Also,I may be off here,but I feel that the stereo type may have changed a bit when it comes to body type. I think the some curvy women are in demand these days as well. I think there is a little more appreciation for their body type.

Ladies, what qualities should the men possess?

Looking forward to your thoughts!

Appearance
Very attractive many times blonde; fashion-model or porn-star type (fashion-model type is very slim, porn-star type often has large breast implants)

Education
Doesn’t mention academic credentials, usually not formally educated.

How she attracts men
The ultimate male fantasy

What she has to offer men
Uninhibited sexuality, obvious eye candy, no focus on conversational or intellectual skills

How long do her dates usually last?
A quicker date, like 1-2 hours, no lingering over dinner
Originally Posted by B Three

BBB, you seem like a nice lady, and lord knows there are plenty of white knights around who will agree with what you wrote, but I wrote back in 2010 that the high end escort was going to die because of the SB model, and for the most part, it has.

When I did a recent search on SA, there were 10,000+ women willing to be SBs within like 10 miles of my house. Preferred 411 had maybe 900 or so local providers listed on its site at its peak, so there was a huge expansion in supply of women willing to sell themselves for sex.

My needs were simple. I wanted the best sex with the best looking women. That used to often be high end escorts. With the explosion of women willing to take money for sex, I would meet women and put them in my sexual rotation. Some had fixed dates, and some didn't; they would call and text me asking if they could come to my place. I turned down more sex with beautiful women than most guys get in a lifetime. I started giving gifts of $400 for multihour sessions. Then I had gorgeous women jumping at $300 and then down to $200 and even less than that.

I know it is in your nature to not believe me, and you will just have to take my word on this, I have no reason to lie. Keep in mind my reputation on the sugar daddy forum was that I was massively overpaying!

I am much more conscious to price than people in general so I picked up on this trend much sooner, but can you imagine a guy who has paid four figures for a date and he sees or hears that I have a more desirable woman than he does for a fraction of the price? There was countless debate upon whether a high end woman was worth it back in the ASPD days. Back then, the truth is that what I found was some high end providers were worth it, sexually speaking, and some were not.

Still, it became a mantra of the forum, but with the explosion of SBs, the answer of paying for high end escorts became, "No, they aren't worth it." at least if the guy is paying only for sex.

What qualities should men possess? Really?

Like any business, I understand asking is the customer going to pay his bill, harm me, put me in legal jeopardy, and do I want to take the job? In my experience, selective woman are not any better performers than ones who aren't. "Selective" and "Exclusive" escort rank up there IMO with army intelligence and jumbo shrimp. What you don't get is that any guy who tells his male friends that he is seeing an exclusive escort is going to be laughed out of the room.

Again, I am done with this game, but the women with whom I had the best sex cared about me in some way, and I cared for them. It didn't have to be love. Sometimes it was friendship and sometimes, it was just a pleasant acquaintanceship, but there had to be something more than just a transaction. The escorts here belittled that notion, but they were wrong.

I have had the porn star expensive type dates you refer to, and they are a complete rip off in comparison to what I can get in the SB world today.

Only guys doing those kinds of dates now know they are overpaying. "Yeah, I know I can get laid for a lot less but I always wanted to do a porn star.", or they are fools who will soon be parted from their money.

This was a relevant list 15 years ago, but it has not kept up with the times.

I don't disagree with you at all. Actually, the "High End Date" is easily the description of a good sugar relationship. Or at least it is with me. I've been on and off SA for longer than here and I have a pretty good idea what different guys are looking for there.

There are some that want a sugar relationship with someone who fits in the high end date mold and there are some that want a sincere relationship with a younger, perhaps less experienced (but eager to please) girl for a lesser amount spent. And everything in between.

I don't think we are disagreeing that I think a huge portion of guys are looking for something with more of a connection than the Expensive PSE experience.