1st time with escort

Hey everyone, I decided to try hiring an escort for the first time last weekend, I spent about an hour looking for the hottest girl I could find on backpage (this is before my friend told me about eccie), called her and she came over. There were more rules than I was expecting, like no kissing, handjob and sex only, etc. About 10-15 minutes into it I went soft, and it took like 5 min to get back up so I could finish. I didn't feel that it was worth the $200 and afterwards I told my friend I would've rather just saved the money and watched porn instead.

This is the first and only time I've been with an escort so far so I'm not really sure what happened. I had sex with 3 girls in college (not escorts just girls I knew) and I got crazy hard instantly with all of them every time, it was great and I had a lot of fun. I also watch porn pretty often and no trouble with that.

Does anyone have any idea why this happened, maybe just nerves or something else? Also this is the first time in my life I've used a condom, I never used one with the girls I dated in college so maybe my dick is too spoiled and the condom is ruining it now. But I wasn't about to bareback it with a backpage girl.

Has anyone else had this problem and what do you suggest?

I'm just going to pull up a chair and take a front row seat.....this should be interesting

It happens to the best of them sweetie, I'm sure that your experiences will get better. Practice makes perfect Happy Hobbying!

Hey everyone, I decided to try hiring an escort for the first time last weekend, I spent about an hour looking for the hottest girl I could find on backpage (this is before my friend told me about eccie), called her and she came over. There were more rules than I was expecting, like no kissing, handjob and sex only, etc. About 10-15 minutes into it I went soft, and it took like 5 min to get back up so I could finish. I didn't feel that it was worth the $200 and afterwards I told my friend I would've rather just saved the money and watched porn instead.

This is the first and only time I've been with an escort so far so I'm not really sure what happened. I had sex with 3 girls in college (not escorts just girls I knew) and I got crazy hard instantly with all of them every time, it was great and I had a lot of fun. I also watch porn pretty often and no trouble with that.

Does anyone have any idea why this happened, maybe just nerves or something else? Also this is the first time in my life I've used a condom, I never used one with the girls I dated in college so maybe my dick is too spoiled and the condom is ruining it now. But I wasn't about to bareback it with a backpage girl.

Has anyone else had this problem and what do you suggest? Originally Posted by rpimps

You apparently didn't do much research on this site either. Either that, or you're a member who created a handle for the sole purpose of trolling, in order to watch drama unfold. If the former, know that research is your friend. If the latter......

I'm kinda with gtl413......this could get interesting, then again, everyone may be more interested in watching their hair grow.....

I am fairly new to the hobby, too. I'm also, I would guess, a more "mature" age than many of the members here and therefore have had that difficulty early on. Some due to nerves and some due to age. Either way it made the first trip less than a pleasurable experience. I found a source for the blue pill and oh what a difference!

I'm not a pharmacist, nor am I advocating chemical solutions, but............ it's a sure thing.

Start masturbating with a condom.. should help with that problem.

Did you read the lady's reviews? That would solve the other problem.

And make sure to offer a review of your experience, to help others out.

and Welcome!

Continue to download porn.

For one you got pretty lucky going with a backpage girl and nothing happen besides your own personnel issues.

Next time I suggest right before stepping in the door take a look at Alyssa XOXO showcase or MaxiMilyen's and have a mental picture of them taking advantage of you.

I think it was just nerves bud. As far as the condom thing I would suggest brining your own that way you'll have something that your more comfortable with. It only gets better with time. Hopefully things will settle down for you. Thanks for sharing. Be safe!!!

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Thanks for the advice everyone. I'll start looking for reviews first and maybe just need more practice.

@Maximilyen I'm not trolling, my friend recommended I ask this here so I figured it couldn't hurt. I don't have a problem with you laughing at the situation if it seems unusual or silly but would appreciate if you can point me in the right direction anyway.

@Solitaire no I didn't look at any reviews. I'm definitely a noob to this, to be honest I thought it would be as simple as picking a girl on a website and calling her up, didn't realize it required so much research.

Watch your pecker for a couple of weeks ... if it looks like its about to fall off wave bye bye to it.

For one you got pretty lucky going with a backpage girl and nothing happen besides your own personnel issues. Originally Posted by Worldtravler

What do you mean by that? as in I'm lucky I didn't catch anything from her?

. I'm definitely a noob to this, to be honest I thought it would be as simple as picking a girl on a website and calling her up, didn't realize it required so much research. Originally Posted by rpimps

It is pretty simple, pick you a girl you like make the call arrive at her incall, ask to talk with her manager/pimp and tell him what you want and what your willing to pay.

What do you mean by that? as in I'm lucky I didn't catch anything from her? Originally Posted by rpimps

No…you're lucky you didn't catch anything from the 3 girls you had unprotected sex with in college!!

What do you mean by that? as in I'm lucky I didn't catch anything from her? Originally Posted by rpimps

Robbed, bait and switch, LE just to name a few what could of happen without any research.