Other Boards or websites for our hobby

Since Eccie has changed from the old days when we had adds and more pages for everything what other sites is there for us, other then oh2 I’m sorry but I hate that site and how it’s run although it is a Necessary evil unfortunately. But where else can we find lady’s adds and check reviews before taking the plunge. List crawler is well it’s list crawler and tryst don’t have reviews etc. is p411 worth it? I wish eccie would return to how it used to be back when still looking and whispers were on here it was fun back then and very informative. So for a guy getting back into the hobby after years of being faithful and married, I’m finally single and ready to mingle. What do the ladies and gentlemen find to be the best site?