So I have done bbfscip with many, many women. According to this new age article, it leads to soul clutter or something. Your opinions please?
http://reflectionofmind.org/time-man...a-birth-canal/
I haven't been hobbying long ( about 4 months or so, and until I started, only been with the wife my whole life), but had a conversation about something like this with a provider just last week. Since I've started hobbying, my wife has been demanding more sex and she has been trying to spice things up by doing things she normally wouldn't do.
I'm pretty sure she is clueless about me hobbying. As I was telling the provider, it is almost like sub consciously, her inner self knows something is different and her relationship is at risk and doing what she can to fight off the threat and preserve us.
Normally I would consider stuff like the article BS, but the timing of my conversation last week and this article sort of makes me wonder. Originally Posted by OneStarLuck07
Lets cut through the social warrior bull crap and say this, if the SOs would do there job fuck and suck no one would be on the site. I believe that the more souls you get to meet in life the better happier you soul is in this life . Just my opinion. Originally Posted by rexdutchman
Agreed. The basic problem w/ monogamy is it's anti-competitive. Once a woman is in a purportedly mono rel'p, like any monopolist, she becomes complacent and exploitive. Not into sex? No prob. No need to do it. Her husband is stuck w/ her under the terms of monogamy. Thus she happily exploits his unmet sexual needs by leading him on, etc. She laughs all the way to the bank, then has the gall to cry foul when he so much as looks at another woman. The Female Monogamy Racket has been going on for centuries. No wonder hookers are so popular.
Both men and women are happier when they have mult. sex partners, esp. men. But I have met a few hookers/civilian women who couldn't say no to any given hard cock even with a gun to their mothers' heads. But the desire for polysexuality is far more common in males.
Polyamory is the key to keeping rel'ps exciting and keeping ppl on their toes (or backs). Both sexes, once they see they have competition relationship-wise and sexually, suddenly become more responsive. It works w/ hookers as well as "ordinary women". After all, hookers ARE ordinary women who are just a lot more honest about their goals with men vs. other women. Ie, they have more integrity than "ordinary women".
If I date or try to date a woman, I tell her up-front I am poly, and why. I make it clear she is free to do whatever she wants to with others, and has no obligation to inform me. I am fine with women, even ones I love deeply, being as promiscuous as they want to be, and need not tell me about it. Their bodies, their business. Consequently I'd happily date a hooker if we wanted to do so and be glad for her that she is getting banged by a lot by diff guys, since it brings her happiness.
Being poly and also fucking whores is as close to male sexual and personal liberation from the Female Monogamy Racket as men can get these days. After all, if women can be liberated, so can men. And I for one think it is high time we re-claimed our personal power in the sexual arena. Men's Liberation is long overdue. Originally Posted by spa999