Frienship in the hobby

Is there a place for friendship between Providers and clients? Have any of you discovered a friendship out side the hobby?

Yes there is a place for it. I've experienced it. I've become great friends with several ladies that I met through the hobby.

Yes, it's possible.

absolutely

Not yet for me, but could see it happen.

Yes I have. Some are still good friendships. Others turned out to be just a front for manipulation.

There was one lady in Amsterdam that I sort of befriended. I was there by myself and asked her if she'd like to grab some dinner. Of course I told her I'd pay for it. I wasn't looking for any extra services from her. After her shift we grabbed something to eat and then went to the bar for some drinks. I asked her if she smoked weed and she said no. Other than that, I am strictly business. Just here for the sex.

I am happy to see I am not alone it this. The provider (my friend) from Austin has left the hobby and she has married. She and I had many fun times together. The cop and I had lunch together today and he asked about her. The only comment he ever made was I would be subject to the Mann act. Our fun at the Horse Shoe casino lasted several days I would give her $100 in the morning and lost that amount at the tables. I bought her a T-shirt that said I'm his lucky charm. While at the roulette table she gave me a kiss and my number hit at the same time. The guy next to me said do I get kiss and we both said no at the same time. We attended a couple socials in Houston and a couple of the Hollow Weeine parties in San Antonio.

I'm sure there can be friendship, but circumstances can always lead to being unfriended.
This is a soul-baring lifestyle and I've seen friendships between ladies who brought longtime friends into it lose those friendships in a short matter of time.

I find it curious only men claim friendships thus far. Also wpuld she remain your friend after she retires? The answer is most likely "No" which means not a deep friendship. I have made friends through work but probably will lose tpuch with all of them after I retire. I do have friends that I have had for decades through everything, these people are real friends. Problem in this place is that it is woman's work to make us feel good. So, we will never know the truth and with mistrust no deep relationship can ever be truly deep and meaningful. IMHO

Hookers can't make friends in the hobby.

You are a client, an ATM, a john or a lick.

You are not a friend.
They will say you are a friend.

Do you do the things with them you do with a friend?
They may put up with you being a friend but the minute you stop seeing them on a fuck level and paying them they will soon forget you existed.

If they are your friend that are just waiting for a time to take advantage of you, ask for money as a loan, ask to co-sign a note etc..

Do you do the things with them you do with a friend?
They may put up with you being a friend but the minute you stop seeing them on a fuck level and paying them they will soon forget you existed. Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Umm...
Still get xmas cards from a few past friends and do the dinner thing when I'm back at once upon a time ago land. Two are married, all have kids.
It's a perspective thing.
But there are variations of perspective.
Both folks must have same perspective, or, yes it blows up.

I still get Xmas cards from my car salesman, but no he is not my friend. I also get Birthday cards from restaurants and hotels, but none of them are my friends either. I get emails from tons of people, but not friends. My friends hang out, call, no money exchanged nor ever even thought of. A hobby business transaction is founded on mistrust which destroys any bond between two people. If your friends are here, I would look closely at finding new friends in RL.

Free pussy- friend.
Paying for it - client.

Yes; it's possible. If you've been seeing someone for years and you're NOT a friend then something is not right. That said, I still insist on payment since I enjoy the temporary ownership of a wonderful person which is an intoxicating feeling.