New to the hobby

Recently started looking into contacting someone for the first time. I am nervous and do not know what to expect. Any tips or pointers for someone starting out? I was looking through tryst and dreamgirl really caught my eye.

Thanks in advance!

1. Never, ever disclose your real life information, no matter what
2. Use a burner phone and burner email
3. Never pay in advance (including deposits)
4. Read reviews to know which providers are worth seeing
5. If some ad sounds too good to be true, it likely is. Stay safe

And above all, don't think with your little head when some provider tells you to violate any of the above rules. If they insist on real life info (they sure aren't giving you theirs) or cash up front before you even meet, go find a different provider to see.

6. If she will bareback you, she's barebacked everyone else

Recently started looking into contacting someone for the first time. I am nervous and do not know what to expect. Any tips or pointers for someone starting out? I was looking through tryst and dreamgirl really caught my eye.

Thanks in advance! Originally Posted by Whiplashxx99

Hi there

My advice is to take any advice given here by client accounts with a very large grain of salt. Like a giant EXTRA SALTY salt lick size grain

I have some reviews here and more on Private Delights and also TER ( though TER only became available to USA users again late last year, so it’s not very active in this area)

Also, feel free to scroll through my twitter @dreamgirlpgh (it’s been cleaned up a bit since the new year)

Additionally, I’m sure the clients that have reviewed me here would be happy to answer a PM if you feel so inclined to inquire with one of them.

Shoot me an email! Info@dreamgirlgfe.com

Stop liking your own posts. It’s annoying.

Hi there

My advice is to take any advice given here by client accounts with a very large grain of salt. Like a giant EXTRA SALTY salt lick size grain

I have some reviews here and more on Private Delights and also TER ( though TER only became available to USA users again late last year, so it’s not very active in this area)

Also, feel free to scroll through my twitter @dreamgirlpgh (it’s been cleaned up a bit since the new year)

Additionally, I’m sure the clients that have reviewed me here would be happy to answer a PM if you feel so inclined to inquire with one of them.

Shoot me an email! Info@dreamgirlgfe.com Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

My advice is join SA. End of my advice.
If SA isn’t your cup of tea, look at traveling girls. I say that because more and more girls want personal info. I am not at all comfortable giving that to local girls. You may feel differently.
Most of the girls reviewed on this site are hood rats that will see anyone with no screening. Hood rats can be fun, but just an FYI.....there is better out there, this isn’t the place for better.

My advice is join SA. End of my advice.
If SA isn’t your cup of tea, look at traveling girls. I say that because more and more girls want personal info. I am not at all comfortable giving that to local girls. You may feel differently.
Most of the girls reviewed on this site are hood rats that will see anyone with no screening. Hood rats can be fun, but just an FYI.....there is better out there, this isn’t the place for better. Originally Posted by Charley3

Hello Charley

May I ask you to clarify your reply? You won’t provide personal info but also wont see girls who don’t screen?

What qualifies as acceptable screening in your personal opinion that would make you feel comfortable?

To the OP: FYI, I do require a certain amount of personal info for screening as well as a deposit in advance, as does any provider I would recommend. If that doesn’t suit your fancy, I’m sure there are options suitable to your comfort level. Good luck in your search!

Hope everyone has been staying warm this week!

Oops forgot to like my own post!

OP - this one should be common sense, but might as well add it anyway

7. If some provider tells you to be skeptical of / ignore advice by fellow hobbyists here, run far far away from that provider.

Hobbyists look out for one another here. that is what the board is used for. Ask yourself, what is it a provider has to hide when she tells you to ignore the advice other guys may provide about the hobby in general or her specifically? That is a huge warning sign.

A simple google search pulls up some good info about contacting an escort. Here is an example:

https://www.slixa.com/blog/advice/th...ing-an-escort/

and a client guide on Tryst: https://tryst.link/blog/tag/client-guide/

deposits are moronic unless you KNOW the girl is good for it. However, being new, I wouldn't do it. Theres plenty of hookers out there that won't ask for a deposit. DG is in a position where she can probably afford to pick and choose who she sees but there's no need to put a deposit in.

As an aside, I can see insanely hot girls in NYC (among other places) that charge as much or less than the girls here who don't need a deposit and have minimal screening. If mongering is in your long-term plans, this is one of the worst imaginable cities to be doing it in. Limited choices, overpriced, etc.


Honestly, if you don't mind go to SA. I don't do it because I'm actively dating online right now and about 1/4-1/3 of the girls I hookup with have profiles on the site (which ofc I don't mention), but I'd rather not have my chances blown b/c some girl off tinder saw me on SA and then doesn't want to do a real relationship/hookup thing because of that.

A simple google search pulls up some good info about contacting an escort. Here is an example:

https://www.slixa.com/blog/advice/th...ing-an-escort/

and a client guide on Tryst: https://tryst.link/blog/tag/client-guide/ Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

Both of those sites can be as bogus as Indys was.

Recently started looking into contacting someone for the first time. I am nervous and do not know what to expect. Any tips or pointers for someone starting out? I was looking through tryst and dreamgirl really caught my eye.

Thanks in advance! Originally Posted by Whiplashxx99

When this COVID mess is over, go to Medellin. The weather is better, the girls are hot, young, cheap and super nice. And it's all legal.

Recently started looking into contacting someone for the first time. I am nervous and do not know what to expect. Any tips or pointers for someone starting out? I was looking through tryst and dreamgirl really caught my eye.

Thanks in advance! Originally Posted by Whiplashxx99

Dreamgirl is always a fun time, you can't go wrong with booking an appointment with her. Great personality and a body to match. Never left an appointment disappointed.

I keep seeing posts about SA. What's that?

SA. Refers to the website. Seeking arrangements