What is the new "backpage"?

This has probably been discussed many times, but I haven't found that one thread where a good answer is given. Or maybe the right answer has changed since then.
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We all know what happened in the spring, lots of chaos and turmoil, many, MANY alternative sites popped up to fill the vacuum.

Now that things have kind of settled down, is there a "best" site now?

I've visited cityguide, eroticmonkey, adultlook, etc and none of them are really that great. It seems like the real providers have splintered among all of them, resulting in the proportion of fake ads being so great that you can go entire pages without a real ad. Just, very very few real providers. Like, it's almost a waste of time.

Where do we go to find a decent percentage of real providers who just haven't made the upgrade to eccie yet?

I will continue with eccie providers for most of my fun, but I always like to see the upcoming talent.
Phil McCrotch's Avatar
dating sites?
Rubratings seems to have the best percentage of real girls on it, at least in my area. I have yet to actually meet anyone from it, but there are a lot of reviews in my area from girls on it.
Do a simple google search for "local escorts" and you'll find quite a few. most of them are feeds from the same 3 or 4 sources so they're all pretty much the same
This has probably been discussed many times, but I haven't found that one thread where a good answer is given. Or maybe the right answer has changed since then.
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We all know what happened in the spring, lots of chaos and turmoil, many, MANY alternative sites popped up to fill the vacuum.

Now that things have kind of settled down, is there a "best" site now?

I've visited cityguide, eroticmonkey, adultlook, etc and none of them are really that great. It seems like the real providers have splintered among all of them, resulting in the proportion of fake ads being so great that you can go entire pages without a real ad. Just, very very few real providers. Like, it's almost a waste of time.

Where do we go to find a decent percentage of real providers who just haven't made the upgrade to eccie yet?

I will continue with eccie providers for most of my fun, but I always like to see the upcoming talent. Originally Posted by coryfor

That's why most of those sites i look at but don't call anyone..
live escort reviews has pretty much taken over the local scene for "up and coming newcomers". cityxguide seems to be mostly massage and fake ads lately with just a few real if you can weed them out.
Although it takes a little bit a money and weeding out of the ads, there are quite a few young girls interested in "discreet relationships" that you won't find on other site,, Whatsyourprice.com.
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Or, if you block your location, search 'insert city' escorts
MOCHAakaMOCHA's Avatar
skipthegames, escortdirectory, adultlook, cityxguide, adultsearch depending on who you ask are all the "new BP".
Yesbackpage but it's mostly spam ads
Backpagepro
Alyssa Monroe's Avatar
I hear good things about "RubRatings" but haven't checked it out myself.. yet...
The reality is there isn't one site that has taken hold in the same way. That was the whole point of FOSTA/SESTA. In addition to the options Mocha shared, there's also:

Slixa (most relevant for the Bay Area/ Northern California, and to some extent Chicago, and East Coast cities like NYC)
PrivateDelights
Eros

Now's the time to hone one's researching capabilities. Being able to filter through Google and social media search results is the direction things are going in. Even if you don't have a Twitter or Switter account, look around there every once in a while to keep up with relevant trends. As an example, #Date[insert city] is gaining traction.

Here's one I noticed. https://www.adlist24.com/


Set up just like BP. At the moment. it's spam filled. But in the Chicago listings, there were a good number of legitimate ads. A lot were Asian spa types, some were individuals.
Bonnie Barrow's Avatar
Has anyone tried OurHome2.net ..?