Dress up for the Hobby??

So anyone who knows me would know that I always dress fabulous and never have been anything less than fresh. So today I had a coffee appointment with a new guy and we agreed to meet at a Starbucks....we planned the M&G becuase he did not have any references...just coffee, no big deal right? This morning he asks me what I am wearing, and I tell him a VS hoodie and Jeans. This silly guy emails me: Lets just reschedule this whole thing. You are busy, I am busy and you are in hoodie and jeans. I want to meet you looking smoking hot so my fantasy of being your sugar daddy gets off to a better start?- Would you meet with him still?I always look very nice when i hobby!! Thanks but no thanks.

Other providers: How would you respond? Hahaha. And....would you meet with him? How often do you dress specific for requests?

Other Hobbyist: What is your pet peeves that providers do with their attire...ie:make-up, hair pulled back? What is distracting or annoying?

I think you need to dress appropriate for the time of day and location. Now meeting for coffee, lots of attire is seen there.

The best attire would be professional business, conservative dress, or dress slacks, and business pumps for shoes. Many might not call that smoking hot, but that is what you could wear and look normal for the situation.

My tastes are simple and I try to always state them at the time the appt is made --- casual clothing - as though the provider were going to the mall or to dinner at Applebees and want to look decent. I always request that hair be down and loose, and say that I don't like lingerie.

In one of my worst experiences, the provider was in dirty and rumpled sweats that she peeled off and threw on the floor withing 20 seconds of my arrival. I walked away from that one.

I'm not going to get all dressed up like I was going to a club or casual cocktail attire to go meet a guy at Starbucks. I realize that the guy wants to see me looking sexy, but I will not draw any unwanted attention to myself or the guy. Its called being discrete. I will dress in a classy, yet sexy and casual way when meeting a gent for coffee or cocktails.

I dress for the occasion and weather of course.

I have certain attire that I wear into hotels and out of hotels.
I have certain attire that I wear when he comes to my incall.
If I have a certain request and I have the attire, I'm more than happy to wear it for him.
If I have a certain request that I don't own and will not wear for anyone else, I ask him purchase it or reimburse me for the purchase.

If it is a public meeting, no way do I want to attract that kind of attention... That is how problems start. Dress to blend-in in public and to stand out in private!

I get that everyone has different tastes, but I am guessing that unless a lady doesn't mind that kind of attention in public it is probably a bit much to expect her to fufill public exhibitionist type fantasies... Too much risk for me personally.

I'm starting to like you more and more Loki.

And , in case he reads this, I have a thought for the guy who postponed with Olivia --- he missed out on an opportunity to spend time with one of the very finest!

In Vegas last year I met up with a provider in the lobby of my hotel. Don't get me wrong she looked smoking hot but almost too hot and wasn't dressed "enough."

Granted I still had a great time but too many looks as we went back up to my room.

Anything clean and with fresh makeup would be appropiate. I don't think you should wear a short dress with fuck me pumps to a coffee house. To me it has a much more natural feel if the gal is dressed casually when we first meet.

You can kind of get away with that kind of thing in Vegas, but little old Nebraska is too small! Heck, I get those kinds of looks when I am with my wife in Vegas, lol.

Why thanks and no doubt he missed out! Hahaha. Round of applause for the EGO of the day award! Anyhow the most sexy attire for a guy to ever show up wearing was hospital scrubs. I might harbor a small fantasy DR fetish or something, but I am still thinking about it.

I prefer you guys to wear track shoes, because we are about to get busy. LOL

I hate it when she looks nothing like her pictures and it Is her!

Olivia, what’s up with that guy? Was he expecting a lap dance at Starbucks! It is MOST appropriate if you dress for the surroundings you will be in. If this guy has done ANY research at all, he would know that you would look smoking hotin a hoodie and jeans. I am willing to bet that you would look smoking hot in a potato sac!

I have to agree with Loki and Burk. While I would certainly enjoy a provider showing up "smokin hot" for a first meeting, I rather think the attention she would attract from others would be most uncomfortable. I feel I could make an acceptable appraisal of her physical atributes in a nice pair of jeans and a t-shirt (or VS hoodie). Is she well groomed and does she smell nice and clean without being overpowering? Is she inteligent and does she have a personality that I mesh well with? Those are equally important in my view.

To be honest I wouldnt be showing up in a suit and tie either. Its not me, and I wouldnt be comfortable. Hospital scrubs I might manage. lol There is a time and place for everything.

You got that right Gator!!! Mwahhhh!!! I politely let him know that I was way easy to get along with and our personalities must not be a match...I wished him well! Catlore, That story just rocked me off my chair!!! I could just imagine!!!