So, I've decided to leave the hobby... this isn't going to be a sexy, or funny post, so if you aren't interested in knowing why feel free to leave now...
I wasn't going to explain myself to anyone except the few regulars I felt attached to...
It's a possibility I may continue to see regulars UTR but I haven't yet decided...
A few months ago I was being harassed repetively. When I refused to comply willingly I was forced to have sex with him... this man has a lot of power and money and tried to hold my job over my head. He began making threats against my family so I quit. Since then I have struggled to pay bills and had to send my kids to my parents for a few days while trying to get utilities back on... he found out and has been harassing me again trying to get me to come back and "work part time" for him...
he knows about the hobby (no I didn't tell him, he was on the site) and told me he would "never pay ...... because he's too good for that"
I will be meeting with lawyers in the next few weeks
I don't want to risk anyone's safety so I will be closing all of my accounts and asking admins to help me mask my numbers and anything else that may be easily found and linked to me.
I didn't take this to court from the beginning because of the hobby, but now it has gone way way too far...... he's become obsessive and dangerous and I need to keep my family safe and keep him from doing this to anyone else....
That's all I feel comfortable telling, so please don't ask any questions.
I will be making an ad since I have appointments scheduled until this weekend and will honor any appointment made up until then....
Be advised my numbers will be changing and I will be deleting all profiles linked to the hobby. Only known clients will be getting new information upon request.
Thank you all for your understanding in this situation 😘