If you have/had an ATF, what made her/him that way?

By ATF, I guess I could mean current favorite, too. For me, it’s all-time.

My ATF basically dropped the walls, and became a friend with paid benefits. I like the authenticity of it...I can just be myself without worry. No games. I know not everyone wants to do that, and that’s ok. But that’s what has made her my ATF for 13 years.

Attitude and good bcd.
I use the phrase FW$B
My #2 is at 12 yrs.

She was generous with her time. She was intelligent, interesting, and seemed genuinely interested in me. We would spend ten, twenty minutes, maybe an hour, "catching up" off the clock. Nothing you expect, just something you cherish.

Before the session, she "made herself up" to look just like the best pictures on her website. And when the first round is finished, she excuses herself and returns exquisitely made-up in a new outfit.

She gave me genuine compliments and graciously accepted them from me.

I've been lucky to have known not one, but two such wonderful ladies. The first I saw exclusively for five years. I limited my visits to 1-2 a year to allow myself time to recover emotionally to avoid falling in love. The second lady I've only seen once, just due to extreme demand and very limited availability with her full time career.

The engagement that was more than the transactional side. We have genuine attachment and are able to just bullshit on the regular. I have a handful that have spent time with my friends and family. Game nights, dinners whatever. We care for one another and know without a doubt we have each other's backs.

I like that, Gypsy. We’ve spent time with family and friends, too, so I know what you mean!

1. On time for the appointment. And if not, reliable enough to let me know ASAP if she needs to reschedule


2. Doesn't have problems with odor


3. Easy to communicate and work with. This is a big one because I don't like it when providers make big deals out of small issues, get really picky about stuff, or make setting things up more complicated than it needs to be. Also, ideally she responds quickly when I contact her



4. Does not change her terms or raise her rates on me


5. Provides good service


6. Silences her cell phone during session


7. Does not misrepresent her appearance


8. She keeps the lying to a minimum. I expect some degree of dishonesty in this industry, but no more than what is necessary


I had one for a couple of years who was very accommodating, but unfortunately she seems to have left the industry, at least for the time being. Off the top of my head, she's the one only I recall observing whose genitals swelled up between the time the panties came off, and mid way through the engagement. I guess some things like genuine arousal you can neither hide nor fake. Completely clean, always playful and energetic, and well nearly perfect. I did have a couple of "minor issues" during the time I saw her, but by comparison they were so small it would have been ludicrous not to ignore them. For all I know maybe there were a couple of things I did that bothered her, and she just never told me. Though her english was not perfect, she kept things simple and I always knew I could count on her.


Of all the girls I have ever seen who have retired, disappeared, or whatever the case may be, I can look back on her and say I have zero regrets, and wouldn't have spent my money any other way.

Nice level of BSC
not boring nor RUN

The automatic transmission fluid is good

It's the experience.

Chemistry. It just feels amazing and real and you're in the moment. She wins on being the only provider I booked twice in a week's time and tried my best for a 3rd.

When I wasn't at my usual spot she drove like 2 hours round trip to see me pro bono.

Another is simply similar to OP. Genuine interest to catch up. Not watching the clock at all. Puts you at ease every time. Looks exactly like they're supposed to. Prepared for the engagement on time or early. You can take her anywhere BCD or for a night out or a company function. No one would be the wiser and everyone would be jealous looking at me.

She is pretty a spinner met her when she was 18 and is now 21 and we have grown together to learn what each likes and she is always up for new things. We share personnel things in our lives and both know enjoy it why we can as things can always change for either and then it is gone.

Great topic.
For me, Xpert expressed many of my sentiments - chemistry is important because in addition to the BCD, being able to talk and experience different things together are important. With my ATF, we spend time off the clock and enjoy time outside the hobby. We share our personal ups and downs. And of course, the BCD is great.

Mine would bounce around in excitement that I was there.
Not tigger bounce around but looked had a little bounce walking me to her apartment.

Locking lips and just getting the feeling that she missed me.
Not rushing to get in my pants and the meeting felt more natural than it did just paying and fucking. She knew the money was there. We never talked about it.

She always wanted to cum. It was a point she made that she would have to cum and would. If not, great actor and I am ok with that.

Lots of things.

She has a BF and a kid now

My only real ATF knew how to TCB. She was a pretty BBW, but I really loved her IOP and her skills.
She knew what I liked. And she always remembered what I liked.
She did what I liked, I rewarded her and she never contacted me, ever.

I was always the one who made contact for a date.



I have had a few others, but unfortunately for me, the leave town, services go down hill, I no longer work there... Or they call/text/email asking for money.

Oh, one other general "disqualifier" : cutting the appointment short. I don't like it when I schedule an hour, then she's ready to leave after 40 minutes.