Have been the "other" guy a few times (hate to say "bull") and it's pretty exciting having a husband watch as you have the wife. The hotwife one, she called her husband to tell him what I was doing... fuck that made me finish way to soon! Having said that I never really wanted to see the wife with someone else
I’ve been the boyfriend in a swingers couple scenario. She would tell him what we did, however, I’ve never had the opportunity to be with a guy’s wife/gf while he watched. I’m open to the idea. I also don’t like the term ‘bull’.