A Perspective on YMMV

Hello Ladies, first and foremost, I again thank you for filling a void in my life that I thought could not be filled. Bless you all and may you always be safe. And please excuse my second thread this week...hope no one minds...I just feel this is an excellent means to obtain useful feedback/info.

When I first joined the hobby club, I was mesmerized by the reviews written here in ECCIE...the awesome GFE sessions with awesome ladies. I quickly made appointments with those ladies that provided such GFE experiences...the ones that were explicit with their descriptions of LFK and DFK. But for me, many times there was none of this, many excuses were given (and I'm not discounting the reasons given by the ladies): "I'm sick", "I don't like open mouth kissing", etc. I accepted it for what it was and moved on, and just assumed that the guys who received such treatment were young and good-looking (and I'm neither of this)...I was still very appreciative of the ladies for what they provided. But I also questioned how can you have GFE without LFK/DFK? Then it dawned on me, many of the reviews I read did say "YMMV"...a trump card for the ladies? So my question to you ladies, when I see this acronym on the menu list, am I supposed to assume that the activities you offer is limited to me based on how I look? On rather I meet your standard for particular activities, like sensual kissing? Thank you ladies for your candid responses.

I have to add, that I have met some wonderful ladies that despite my age/looks, have offered great GFE experiences (including terrific DFK). I could mention several here: Isabella, SexxySabrina, JennaMonroe and special mention here...Kendall4U...and this because Kendall even complimented my manner of kissing (the only one that has made such a remark, it did wonders for my ego).

Take care of the ladies' taint and the world is your oyster. Oh, a modtard will probably be contacting you for starting two threads in one week. Maybe they will let it go.

Oops! Was not aware of this rule...I already have an infraction (resurrecting n old thread). Thanks for the heads up Pyramider.

Oh, forgot to add...my mouth is always freshly cleaned...mints, gum, n I top it off with mouthwash (which I carry in my car) rt. before I enter the premises. (Had to add this before I get hammered w/ remarks about my breathe).

I never had that problem and I think it is because I always ask if she would be opposed to DFK and BBBJ. Not all who I saw would DFK but I knew that BEFORE we met and it was never a problem. Ask her first. Most, if not all, will tell you up front.

I had met ladies who would offer mouth wash or breath mint right in the beginning. I would ALWAYS take their offer to freshen up or clean up no matter how clean I was. That helped.

H, gfe is a strange concept and, in itself, varies from provider to provider. When I first started hobbying, I set my expectations low, knowing that if I were in her place, I probably wouldn't be that enthusiastic about the IOP aspect either. It wasn't until I met Jessica UTR, that it occurred to me that some, if not most, women see with their hearts and not their eyes and it really opened mine. I sense that it's less about ymmv than about chemistry and the lady's personality. Some of our girls are true lovers and it makes a world of difference in their attitudes. Not surprisingly, most of the best gfe sessions I have had have been with providers over 30. And while there are a few of the younger ones that can pull it off, a lot would still rather have the "Brad Pitt" clients, and it shows. Even today, I don't go into a session expecting it, but it's always a pleasant surprise.

Good answer DATY.

Hotamale I think all ladies are ymmv. There are ways to try and push it in your favor but even still it's not 100%. I suggest you reward the ones that have exceeded your expectations and stay in that zone

Thank u for that TD, I do and I will!

For me, you can't be gfe without lfk dfk and a few other oral fixations my only ymmv is island trips cuz sometimes, size just does matter.

all girls are ymmv. it's just like a restaurant...the menu is right there for you to read, but it's no guarantee you'll like the food. if you can't deal with that uncertainty, stay home and watch porn.

Take care of the ladies' taint and the world is your oyster. Oh, a modtard will probably be contacting you for starting two threads in one week. Maybe they will let it go. Originally Posted by pyramider

Oops! Was not aware of this rule...I already have an infraction (resurrecting n old thread). Thanks for the heads up Pyramider. Originally Posted by hotamale

hotamale, he's prolly just ribbing you cos you didnt post a photo of taint. [google image search is your friend]



seriously, guys can start and post in as many threads as they want.
rules on content of said posts are different.

same goes for visiting any of the providers who advertise on eccie and elsewhere.

+1 Laura Lynn thats my only ymmv is the island.

I have been hobbying for a very long time and it is always YMMV with most providers. I have noticed that as I have gotten older the GFE does differ with some. But I have been lucky to have found my ATF who treats me like her BF each and every time we meet with all that I could ever want GFE.

There are a lot of reasons your experience may or may not differ from someone else, too many to list. My advice is just find the one or ones that make your day. You never know how your session will go until you arrive and find out if she is into you or just playing the game hoping you will come back and spend more money and not write a bad review.

Thanks Elgato...all good advise...that's why I posted the question...good feedback.