Group sex?

I know, I'm pretty tame for this forum. I've never done a lot of the kinky things other here have tried (sans my public displays of affection mentioned in another thread). I have never had anal sex. I have never had group sex. And I have never been with a woman.

For someone half French, I should have at least had a Ménage à trois - but no.

However, I have been to an orgy. I didn't know that's what I'd stumble upon, but it was interesting to watch.

I was on vacation with a client in Miami. He was shy and wanted me to show him some new experiences. I have never been a swinger, but I had heard of a swingers club in Miami called Miami Velvet www.miamivelvet.com so we decided to check it out. When we walked into the club, my date turned to me and said nervously, "please don't let go of my hand." I told him to relax, I was not planning on participating or leaving his side. We had a BLAST! It was a FUN club. We danced, well I danced while he and the rest of the dance floor watched. We explored. There is one section of the club that you were required to leave your clothes in a locker and wear only a towel to enter. We snuck in with all our clothes on. That is where we found all the orgies. They have all these rooms with large picture window and in each room was a pile of bodies. We watched for a little while. It was more interesting, like watching a nature show on t.v., than a turn on. But, we still went back to the hotel and had amazing sex.

So, for this forum, I thought a thread on group sex would be interesting to hear other's experiences.

I'm almost too embarrassed to engage in group sex, being short, lamely endowed and having a few extra pounds. Not that I wouldn't experiment give the right goading, just embarrassed.

Well, not to be boastful or anything, but group sex is one thing that I really have enjoyed and love to explore often. It's not always pretty, like in the movies, but it is a lot of fun. I've seen 40 or so naked people writing around in various positions and scenarios, I've seen a girl take on a dozen guys, performed in double and triple penetrations, had 2 girls at once, tag teamed a girl with a friend or 2. Admittedly too much can start to make you think that everyone is like this, so it has to be kept in perspective.

How many bodies do you need to qualify as a group?

Or does it qualify if you have multiple personalities?

I would say, "two is company, three's a group."

Do the other members of the group have to be human? Im in Oklahoma where men are men and sheep are nervous.
Seriously, if you go to one of the less publicized (The ones not featured on HBO) on premise swingers clubs, you will see pretty much a mix of people of all shapes and sizes.
You see a typical cross section of folks you would see in any normal public setting (well except WalMart and I guess thats a good thing http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/ )

On premise swingers places arent hard to find, just take a little research. The ones most publicized usually are front end loaded with pretty people and also short on fun.
On the comment of watching, watching people having real life group sex is probably more comical than erotic.

I have been to several swing clubs. I have been in 3-somes, was 1 male in a GB the males numbers anywhere from 4-10 with 1 female. been in a room with several activities going on in different sections but as for a true orgy with everyone piled in one area, nope havent done it yet.

My first orgy was a swinger's party that was, gee, 12 years ago this month. A great, great experience: all the women were hot, friendly and accommodating, and I ended up fulfilling a nice lady's fantasy of having a 3-way, 2-on-1 simultaneous orgasm :-)

Subsequent parties elsewhere also exposed me to the dark side of the swing scene: a lot of people who think the're OK with sharing their SO, really aren't when push comes to shove. Things can get ugly.

I was involved with a swing group in Tulsa that was very friendly and welcoming, probably because the people who hosted it were capable, with-it folks who were also good-hearted and natural socializers.

One of my fantasies is to find a provider who'll accompany me to swing clubs or parties in the Dallas or Houston areas. I'm reasonably fit and tolerably well-equipped: my only problem is being a single male. Ladies?...

>>>a lot of people who think the're OK with sharing their SO, really aren't when push >>>comes to shove. Things can get ugly.

Thats typical and weve seen couple of things that really messes up a good party,
S/Os who cant stand the sight of their partner having more fun than they are,
Wives who got pushed or strong armed into the whole scene without being totally informed or willing.
Jealous people. Weve seen a bunch of espisodes in recent years where jealousy was a factor. It may also be related to some of the couples be way younger than average.

MMMMMMMM, live porn can be very nice, lol. Some swing clubs are a diverse mix of the populous (generally more real action goes on), others have distinct cliques of the 'beautiful' people (more a social gathering of those that go often). So whether it be three, four or more...the chemestry of those involved can make it or break it. My suggestion is to take someone you enjoy being with, then if you don't find other's to play with, you still will have fun. Jealousy is definitely a mood killer. Overall, keep an open mind, relax and enjoy. Kisses, Lace

Does watching a few girls "pull the train" in the dorm room count?

Or does it qualify if you have multiple personalities? Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Lol. No I would have to say they don’t, but they can sure make things more interesting! I would say four or more qualifies as group sex. That’s just my opinion.

I can control when I come and can go for hours with out coming . one time I was invited to a reverse gangbang party for one of the swingers sites in Houston .I service eight different woman and made them all orgasm, some more than once I felt like superman that night.

I can control when I come and can go for hours with out coming Originally Posted by loverman

So, as a too-quick cummer, tell me what the secret is. You could make my final years awesome.