I have always wanted to explain this but never could get the words out as perfect as he did.
If you're unsure of your sexual skills or prowess, they know just how to let you know what they like and what they do not if you ask. And they'll gladly help you think you are the best lover in the world.
Most of them list their preferred beverages or gift ideas, so you can always break the ice with something from their showcase or P411 profile.
And many of them, after you see them a bit after a while will gladly accept a bit of dinner and conversation as long as you pick up the tab. Though I have had a few insist on going dutch. They are people too and like anyone else, they enjoy polite, engaging, respectful company. And it they are busy, they will politely decline.
Don't abuse it, guys, when a provider gives you that extra touch. Write her a good review, tip her, get her a nice, thoughtful gift and say thanks, always say thanks!
I don't "pay" for OTC time. In part because at that point, I'm dealing with a person, not a provider...and usually one that I've done a fair amount of business with and there is some history of doing a little extra for each other. Neither do I insist or require it, if I make an invitation, it's only that...an invitation.
They may be "whores in the bedroom", but they are also ladies outside of it. Just treat 'em right like you should any lady.
Originally Posted by Rehke