What exactly is GFE

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What exactly is GFE? Is it just having sex and eating out? What is expected in a GFE session?
Goose2u's Avatar
There you have it lol
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I've always thought GFE meant that the IOP is damn near flawless, or it's actual passion.

I'd expect it to include lfk, dfk, BBBJ, DATY, and anything else a normal healthy guy would expect out of his steady girlfriend, MINUS the bitching, clinginess, and other strings attached to said girlfriend.
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Milfy2002 pretty much hit all the acronyms I normally associate with GFE.
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  • Ashi
  • 09-04-2015, 10:26 PM
+1! Miss Milfy puts it perfectly, as usual. I would add eye contact, lack of falseness , sense of deep connection and the attitude we all dream about!
I kinda think gfe is less about the specific activities but more about how they make you feel while you are with them. because i have had sessions with a lot of activities but it didn't feel like gfe. When you're with a true gfe, you just click and you feel like you can do what ever you want with them and the enjoyment goes equally both ways with no illusion of passion, it IS actual passion to the point where you're not even restricted to the requested time frame. But maybe that's just me, idk
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GFE is when your girlfriend treats you like shit, cock teases you leaving you with blue balls.
I've always thought GFE meant that the IOP is damn near flawless, or it's actual passion.

I'd expect it to include lfk, dfk, BBBJ, DATY, and anything else a normal healthy guy would expect out of his steady girlfriend, MINUS the bitching, clinginess, and other strings attached to said girlfriend. Originally Posted by milfy2002
Most of my gfe sessions include lfk, dfk but rarely bbbj or daty. Also passion or at least IOP. Playing with the kitty, close face to face sex. eye contact and lots of different positions. etc
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I kinda think gfe is less about the specific activities but more about how they make you feel while you are with them. because i have had sessions with a lot of activities but it didn't feel like gfe. When you're with a true gfe, you just click and you feel like you can do what ever you want with them and the enjoyment goes equally both ways with no illusion of passion, it IS actual passion to the point where you're not even restricted to the requested time frame. But maybe that's just me, idk Originally Posted by bobo1cg
I think what you've described is IOP.
I think what you've described is IOP. Originally Posted by TinMan
i guess lol
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  • Ashi
  • 09-04-2015, 10:47 PM
I think you can predict or expect GFE. iOP is less predictable, just happens when things just click!
To me gfe is like a first date .u know those butterfly flutters in ur stomach .laughter .chemistry .,passion
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^^^^ ^^^ +1
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and anything else a normal healthy guy would expect out of his steady girlfriend, MINUS the bitching, clinginess, and other strings attached to said girlfriend. Originally Posted by milfy2002
But couldn't that "normal healthy guy" get his "anything else" from a blow-up doll? Not saying I like bitching and clinginess, but I love those girls best who remind me that above all else they're these complicated creatures called "women." Sometimes they don't make any sense at all, but that's what makes them women.

Bobo's original comment above rings true with me. GFE's not a scripted, choreographed menu of activities. That would be (yawn) a porno movie, with me as an actor. The GFE experience for me is, okay, any provider will let me enter her body. But the GFE provider lets me have a peek, even just a little peek, into her soul as well.

How does a provider achieve that with a guy? "By being herself" is a cliche, but it's partly true. There are girls here on eccie who are sensitive, warm, funny, and beautiful inside. Caring. They love people. Others I can think of are mercenaries--two in particular I've only seen once each and have never reviewed and won't be seeing again--no surprise there. Yes, they're all in this business for the money, but the GFE girl is having fun along the way. The mercenary is gritting her teeth and getting on with the whole thing and counting the water stains on the ceiling and, oh yeah, watching the clock.