How do you talk to BP providers?

I mentioned that I was on p411 and they just hung up on me. How do you get a good level of comfort with these girls for them to tell you their services because all they have is adds?

That should be a signal to stick to P411 providers. IJS

Speak r-e-a-l-l-y slow and don't use big words!!

Speak r-e-a-l-l-y slow and don't use big words!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

haha, I don't doubt it. The girl was a dumb bitch, even after I specifically said"I am not affiliated with____, Do you mind if i ask about services?". I had two others hang up after I mentioned p411 which should be an automatic green light to them. i should put up a review of her.

BP girls aren't worth their weight in salt but I never talk services over the phone, p411 or not so she did have a somewhat valid reason to hang up on you. Stick with p411, reviewed ladies or those who offer a menu on their website if you want details about services offered. You can continue to talk shop with bp girls but don'tget upset when they hang up on you from time to time.

Most ladies with any common sense ARE going to hang up on you as soon as you start trying to talk about specific services no matter what you tell them. That is solicitation and it is still illegal. With all of the police decoys on Backpage targeting clients lately you shouldn't be discussing services/soliciting anyone you don't know anyway.

you're doing it wrong.

you're doing it wrong. Originally Posted by john_deere

Then how will I know if I'm gonna Greek or not.

Most ladies with any common sense ARE going to hang up on you as soon as you start trying to talk about specific services no matter what you tell them. That is solicitation and it is still illegal. With all of the police decoys on Backpage targeting clients lately you shouldn't be discussing services/soliciting anyone you don't know anyway. Originally Posted by 1ThickBlond

No girls with common sense know what entrapment is......which was what I was trying to negate.

BP girls aren't worth their weight in salt but I never talk services over the phone, p411 or not so she did have a somewhat valid reason to hang up on you. Stick with p411, reviewed ladies or those who offer a menu on their website if you want details about services offered. You can continue to talk shop with bp girls but don'tget upset when they hang up on you from time to time. Originally Posted by Karyn Lovely

On p411, there's a menu so it's automatically implied.

Then how will I know if I'm gonna Greek or not. Originally Posted by Camaro

Stick with providers who have already have reviews, or ECCIE profiles, or P411 accounts, or websites with menus, and you'll know what you'll get. Otherwise, you take your chances.

Why, exactly, are you seemingly enamored with BP girls only? Because they are usually cheaper? You get what you pay for, ya know. I'm not slamming BP; I advertise there, too, as do many other providers here, but we have websites, plenty of reviews, etc., to provide such info. Most BP girls have an ad, period. That's when you run into trouble.

Quite frankly, even if you did have a bucket o' references and were a member of ECCIE with a gazillion reviews and had 3 dozen P411 okays, if you asked me about a particular sexual act before screening, I'd hang up on you, too.

No girls with common sense know what entrapment is......which was what I was trying to negate. Originally Posted by Camaro

I have no idea what you just said.

Entrapment is a legal definition. It means that LEO cannot set you up for a crime, basically the gist is that if you knew they were a police officer you would not act in a way to get yourself in trouble.

Stick with providers who have already have reviews, or ECCIE profiles, or P411 accounts, or websites with menus, and you'll know what you'll get. Otherwise, you take your chances.

Why, exactly, are you seemingly enamored with BP girls only? Because they are usually cheaper? You get what you pay for, ya know. I'm not slamming BP; I advertise there, too, as do many other providers here, but we have websites, plenty of reviews, etc., to provide such info. Most BP girls have an ad, period. That's when you run into trouble.

Quite frankly, even if you did have a bucket o' references and were a member of ECCIE with a gazillion reviews and had 3 dozen P411 okays, if you asked me about a particular sexual act before screening, I'd hang up on you, too. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Some of the prettiest girls don't have reviews or websites.

Some of the prettiest girls don't have reviews or websites. Originally Posted by Camaro

Well, that is sad for them, and bad for you. While I understand their need for safety and wanting to keep their public exposure to a minimum, if escorts are already posting face pics on BP, they might as well have an informative profile or website somewhere. Doesn't make sense not to. It's riskier for them if they have to answer such questions over the phone or by email, and there's the chance some fellow will go ballistic after not getting what he specifically wanted after a girl refuses a service she could have easily said wasn't offered beforehand in a non-confrontational way on a profile or website.


(By the way, I know what entrapment is. I just didn't understand what YOU were trying to say with, "No girls with common sense know what entrapment is......which was what I was trying to negate." That was kind of a contradictory statement. Perhaps you meant to say, "Girls with common sense know what entrapment is....?" Yes, I'm the grammar police. )