Question for the ladies-

So, I’ve had a difficult time making a date (or even communicating) with a couple of ladies in the past that I know others see easily. Recently, I’ve learned that for a couple of the ladies that I see easily, some other highly respected hobbyists have a helluva time getting a date.

So, question to the ladies: Do you have a formal or informal separate list of contacts for regulars and “everybody else”? Do you respond a lot differently to the caller depending on which list he is on? Any key factors in a new hobbyist’s text that would make you more or less likely to respond?

Working on a theory here... presumption is that this is how it is, which would make sense...

Thanks in advance for any insights on how this works for you!

All the best-

Luke

Good questions. I would also like to know what can hobbyists do to improve our success rate at making contact and securing an appointment with the providers more consistently? I've been having a hard time connecting with people as well that I see reviews on all the time.

I tend to ignore short messages with bad grammar & no introduction or screening information… such as, “U avail?” “Hey” “Sup” etc. And especially those asking for pictures, since I have pictures posted everywhere on the internet. Also attempting to barter rates is an instant turn-off.

Always approach a provider respectfully, with an introduction and some screening information, date and time of requested meet. I prefer this information to be within the first couple of texts, or I feel like I’m dealing with a someone who isn’t really serious about meeting.

That all sounds like good advise

If one of you NWA ladies would pm me with more helpful advice
I would appreciate some additional coaching

Thanks, Ginger! Good advice...

Any others?

I've observed some of my GF's having their phone almost constantly dinging with texts and calls. It would be natural to just kind of wait and see if a known entity called before taking a chance with a new guy. I have a feeling that, while there's great value for us guys to get to see a new girl, the opposite might be true for the gals... maybe you value predictability...?? and therefore, past clients??

Thanks, Ginger! Good advice...

Any others?

I've observed some of my GF's having their phone almost constantly dinging with texts and calls. It would be natural to just kind of wait and see if a known entity called before taking a chance with a new guy. I have a feeling that, while there's great value for us guys to get to see a new girl, the opposite might be true for the gals... maybe you value predictability...?? and therefore, past clients?? Originally Posted by CH Luke

My phone lives on silent… I look at it when I look at it.

Entirely too much dinging. I have to keep it that way for my sanity.

There is risk every time a provider takes a new client. I think they would prefer an established client for that reason.

My phone lives on silent… I look at it when I look at it.

Entirely too much dinging. I have to keep it that way for my sanity. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I like that strategy...it seems that those who are taking every text in real time sometimes don't enjoy the benefit of your policy! lol