Providers top complaints

Ok ladies your turn. What is the most frustrating thing we men do on dates? And what is your favorite?

slap my titties!

you can bite my left nipple but plzzzz dont slap it or the other one!! lol ouchhhhh

slap my titties!

you can bite my left nipple but plzzzz dont slap it or the other one!! lol ouchhhhh Originally Posted by DallasRain

Yes! Or any rough play without prior consent. Everyone has different tolerance levels. Treating the clitoris like it’s made of cyptonite is my personal pet peeve. The clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings—4x as many as the penis, making it quite a bit more sensitive. Gentleness is the key, guys.

Not washing your hands before our session… If you’re going to be touching a ladies private areas, it is imperative that your hands are clean. And well-groomed! Keep your fingernails trimmed. Jagged or untrimmed fingernails can be very painful.

Asking invasive questions about our personal lives… It puts us on the spot, and it crosses our boundaries.

Gossiping about other providers during a session. We are both here to enjoy each other’s company & have a good time, not discuss other people.

Having to be prompted to present the donation at the beginning of the date. It’s very awkward to have to ask for it.

Bartering. It’s just rude. If a gentleman cannot afford a lady’s rate, there are usually several other options within his price range.

Staying for substantially longer than you have scheduled. I never want to be rude, and I am by no means a clock watcher… But it’s important to respect the fact that ladies do have other commitments and personal lives.

Last-minute canceling or no showing. To the guys this is just a form of entertainment, a hobby. But to most of the ladies this is our livelihood. Last-minute cancellations or simply not showing up costs us income. More than likely, we could have scheduled another client for the time that we dedicated to meeting you.

Repeatedly calling or texting with no purpose other than to socialize. The amount of time we spend communicating just for inquiries daily can be overwhelming. Again, this is our livelihood, our business. And I never call my doctor or dentist just to chat.

As far as qualities I greatly appreciate in a client… Respect in general. Genuine compliments. A great sense of humor and personality. Excellent hygiene. Good communication skills, keeping me apprised of changes in his schedule as early as possible, confirmation of our date, etc. Reliability. Thoughtfulness – small tokens that don’t necessarily have to cost a fortune, but show a lady that she has been in your thoughts prior to the date, you are familiar with her likes, and you were looking forward to seeing her. Repeat visits… There’s nothing more flattering.

Yes! Or any rough play without prior consent. Everyone has different tolerance levels. Treating the clitoris like it’s made of cyptonite is my personal pet peeve. The clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings—4x as many as the penis, making it quite a bit more sensitive. Gentleness is the key, guys.

Not washing your hands before our session… If you’re going to be touching a ladies private areas, it is imperative that your hands are clean. And well-groomed! Keep your fingernails trimmed. Jagged or untrimmed fingernails can be very painful.

Asking invasive questions about our personal lives… It puts us on the spot, and it crosses our boundaries.

Gossiping about other providers during a session. We are both here to enjoy each other’s company & have a good time, not discuss other people.

Having to be prompted to present the donation at the beginning of the date. It’s very awkward to have to ask for it.

Bartering. It’s just rude. If a gentleman cannot afford a lady’s rate, there are usually several other options within his price range.

Staying for substantially longer than you have scheduled. I never want to be rude, and I am by no means a clock watcher… But it’s important to respect the fact that ladies do have other commitments and personal lives.

Last-minute canceling or no showing. To the guys this is just a form of entertainment, a hobby. But to most of the ladies this is our livelihood. Last-minute cancellations or simply not showing up costs us income. More than likely, we could have scheduled another client for the time that we dedicated to meeting you.

Repeatedly calling or texting with no purpose other than to socialize. The amount of time we spend communicating just for inquiries daily can be overwhelming. Again, this is our livelihood, our business. And I never call my doctor or dentist just to chat.

As far as qualities I greatly appreciate in a client… Respect in general. Genuine compliments. A great sense of humor and personality. Excellent hygiene. Good communication skills, keeping me apprised of changes in his schedule as early as possible, confirmation of our date, etc. Reliability. Thoughtfulness – small tokens that don’t necessarily have to cost a fortune, but show a lady that she has been in your thoughts prior to the date, you are familiar with her likes, and you were looking forward to seeing her. Repeat visits… There’s nothing more flattering. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Well said Ginger doll! I do absolutely agree with everything

Yes! Or any rough play without prior consent. Everyone has different tolerance levels. Treating the clitoris like it’s made of cyptonite is my personal pet peeve. The clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings—4x as many as the penis, making it quite a bit more sensitive. Gentleness is the key, guys.

Not washing your hands before our session… If you’re going to be touching a ladies private areas, it is imperative that your hands are clean. And well-groomed! Keep your fingernails trimmed. Jagged or untrimmed fingernails can be very painful.

Asking invasive questions about our personal lives… It puts us on the spot, and it crosses our boundaries.

Gossiping about other providers during a session. We are both here to enjoy each other’s company & have a good time, not discuss other people.

Having to be prompted to present the donation at the beginning of the date. It’s very awkward to have to ask for it.

Bartering. It’s just rude. If a gentleman cannot afford a lady’s rate, there are usually several other options within his price range.

Staying for substantially longer than you have scheduled. I never want to be rude, and I am by no means a clock watcher… But it’s important to respect the fact that ladies do have other commitments and personal lives.

Last-minute canceling or no showing. To the guys this is just a form of entertainment, a hobby. But to most of the ladies this is our livelihood. Last-minute cancellations or simply not showing up costs us income. More than likely, we could have scheduled another client for the time that we dedicated to meeting you.

Repeatedly calling or texting with no purpose other than to socialize. The amount of time we spend communicating just for inquiries daily can be overwhelming. Again, this is our livelihood, our business. And I never call my doctor or dentist just to chat.

As far as qualities I greatly appreciate in a client… Respect in general. Genuine compliments. A great sense of humor and personality. Excellent hygiene. Good communication skills, keeping me apprised of changes in his schedule as early as possible, confirmation of our date, etc. Reliability. Thoughtfulness – small tokens that don’t necessarily have to cost a fortune, but show a lady that she has been in your thoughts prior to the date, you are familiar with her likes, and you were looking forward to seeing her. Repeat visits… There’s nothing more flattering. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

This should be required reading for hobbyists.

slap my titties!

you can bite my left nipple but plzzzz dont slap it or the other one!! lol ouchhhhh Originally Posted by DallasRain

You could slap me with them. My safe word is “Harder””

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll
“Yes! Or any rough play without prior consent. Everyone has different tolerance levels. Treating the clitoris like it’s made of cyptonite is my personal pet peeve. The clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings—4x as many as the penis, making it quite a bit more sensitive. Gentleness is the key, guys.”

Clitoris as cryptonite. So that’s what leaves me so weak.

Ginger is blessed with a beautiful in call location. I have talked to providers who get a hotel for a scheduled encounter and the hobbyist calls and cancels after she has paid for the room.
How often do clients get overly emotionally attached? Is that a common issue?

Ginger is blessed with a beautiful in call location. I have talked to providers who get a hotel for a scheduled encounter and the hobbyist calls and cancels after she has paid for the room.
How often do clients get overly emotionally attached? Is that a common issue? Originally Posted by Rockydoc

I have talked to more than one provider who said the constant intrusive texts from clients wanting an off the clock friend can be tedious and uncomfortable. . I never contact a provider unless I want an appointment. Hobbyists who fall in love are sad and pathetic and those clients turn on the provider and call her a bitch if they aren’t into social work and dogpile on. They are easily recognized from their posts. If I fall in love it stays neatly confined to the time I paid for. It’s a business and not a non profit one at that.

I have talked to more than one provider who said the constant intrusive texts from clients wanting an off the clock friend can be tedious and uncomfortable. . I never contact a provider unless I want an appointment. Hobbyists who fall in love are sad and pathetic and those clients turn on the provider and call her a bitch if they aren’t into social work and dogpile on. They are easily recognized from their posts. If I fall in love it stays neatly confined to the time I paid for. It’s a business and not a non profit one at that. Originally Posted by AJPrufrock

It’s happened to me! I’ve had to fire more than a few. Lol!

Instructive reading right here. A How to Hobby 101 course, potentially. Let's hear from some more providers.

I have a question, at what point are rates appropriate to discuss? During the text planning at the beginning or at the location? I have had providers go silent on me when I ask rates. I just don't want to get to the room and find out I didn't bring enough or it is just more than I want to spend.

I have a question, at what point are rates appropriate to discuss? During the text planning at the beginning or at the location? I have had providers go silent on me when I ask rates. I just don't want to get to the room and find out I didn't bring enough or it is just more than I want to spend. Originally Posted by BuckHunter918

It should be a question you ask within the first two messages you send a lady

It should be a question you ask within the first two messages you send a lady Originally Posted by Rosepetals

Agreed. The only other aspect more important is determining that you are in the same location, so having a meeting is geographically feasible.

Personally, I don’t even wait for the client to ask. I have a detailed response in my notepad that I copy and paste that includes my rates for all the different lenths of dates that I offer, spa features unique to my incall, a link to my reviews, etc. And my general location, so they can plan drive time. I also include exactly what I require for screening. I believe in being direct and to the point, and if we are not a match, that is fine. It saves us both time.

There are many naïve people, usually new to the hobby, who believe that discussing rates will make the difference between being arrested and not being arrested… However, that is a fallacy. Disclaimers and lack of discussions do not protect you. That is what screening is for. Whether or not you discuss rates, activities etc… if you meet up with law-enforcement you will be arrested, regardless.

Another big no-no for me that I forgot to mention in my first post…

Do not ask a provider to spend time with you off the clock.

The hobby is an exchange of commodities. Asking a provider to spend social time with you off the clock is the same thing as that provider asking you for money without providing you with her services. It’s a quid pro quo, and one does not work without the other.