I've had several very good experiences with blindfolds. Both when the lady wears them and myself as well (taking turns).
Your senses are definitely heightened. Plus it makes for a very erotic setting.
I once had an SO give me a BJ with her hands tied behind her back while wearing a blindfold.....the possibilities are endless.
It's all in the "surrendering control" element.
Originally Posted by BushDrummer
Surrendering control. Hmmmm....sounds good. You know, there is a forum on ecci called another realm that might interest you. (Shameless plug for a great forum!)
I have only had one problem with a blindfold and it was with one that was very high end and form fitting. It was on a little too long and it physically hurt when it was removed. I expected my eyes to adjust but this was the skin that had been compressed a little too long.
If you're using a silk scarf or one of those more gentle blindfolds that stay on with elastic, it shouldn't be a problem.
I like them and then I don't. Often, I feel clumsy when they're on and I don't know the room that I'm in. But when I get into a certain mindset and I don't know what my partner is about to do next, it's VERY exciting and completely enticing.
Plus, on the other hand, I think a man blindfolded just LOOKS sexy to me when the time together goes in that direction.
Elisabeth