BOUNDARIES! Why is it so difficult for some to respect them and others not?

Boundaries. Why is it so difficult for some to respect them and others not?

Because we all are humans, because all of us on this game are broken somehow.

I blame the taint.

Boundaries. Why is it so difficult for some to respect them and others not? Originally Posted by pyramider

Can you give specifics?

Point on the doll where she touched you, pyramider.

Can you give specifics? Originally Posted by Muscleup

Basically, an open discussion. But the start of this thread begins here https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2155273

Point on the doll where she touched you, pyramider. Originally Posted by RyanFromTER

Been there ... done that ...

Point on the doll where she touched you, pyramider. Originally Posted by RyanFromTER

That's funny, I liked that RyanFromTer!!!!

Basically, an open discussion. But the start of this thread begins here https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2155273



Been there ... done that ... Originally Posted by pyramider

suuuuuuuper fucking creepy...makes me think hard about how I approach my clients.
I do encourage convo between dates (as long as that convo leads to more dates) maybe thats all she was doing entertaining some light convo but this guy took it and ran with it. smh

Basically, an open discussion. But the start of this thread begins here https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2155273



Been there ... done that ... Originally Posted by pyramider

the start of this thread was in reaction to the linked thread started by the first guy to respond here. and he gave the right answer.

Boundaries. Why is it so difficult for some to respect them and others not? Originally Posted by pyramider

Are you so bored with your juvenile obsession with taint? Pards time for you to take up stamp collecting or some such shit on par. What's next? Bank Robbery; why do some wear a mask and some don't?

Jesus motherfucking christ son. Get out of your mother's basement and go back to assessing everyone else's "game" or lack there of conveniently omitting your own. That or please go back to your second grade preoccupation with taint and farting, at least those comments are predictable and understandable given your obvious absence of confidence.

Seriously guy. Are you really still here? What could possibly be your motivation? Trying to redefine "dumbfuck" for Wikipedia? You can quit now, you succeeded.

suuuuuuuper fucking creepy...makes me think hard about how I approach my clients.
I do encourage convo between dates (as long as that convo leads to more dates) maybe thats all she was doing entertaining some light convo but this guy took it and ran with it. smh Originally Posted by ACharmXo

Here is my side of the story, i live a shitty empty life. I live in a sorry loveless marriage. For many years Ive a workalcoholic. Gave up on me a long time. Ive seen many providers, some as regular some as a one time. I was OK with it. Then I met this wonderful woman that touch my heart, and made me feel I was OK to be happy. My mistake was telling her that. She freaked out and took some misunderstandings and cut me off. I was OK with it, then her friend came and accused me of online stalking, and I took a lot of shit all day long. The sad part is I never got to apologize to her and tell her she doesnt need to worry about anything. The song i put is about me finding life after many years of darkness, knowing that I cant be with her and it will hurt but grateful she woke up that piece of me. Last thing i wanted was to fuck with her way of making a living. That was it. She is spectacular and special in many ways. And I am human, I saw a.wonderful woman, I never so a piece of meet or a collection of holes as some of the man has sescribed women here. So I am human. So if that makes me a creep, well I guess I am ... let the abuse begin ...

Here is my side of the story, i live a shitty empty life. I live in a sorry loveless marriage. For many years Ive a workalcoholic. Gave up on me a long time. Ive seen many providers, some as regular some as a one time. I was OK with it. Then I met this wonderful woman that touch my heart, and made me feel I was OK to be happy. My mistake was telling her that. She freaked out and took some misunderstandings and cut me off. I was OK with it, then her friend came and accused me of online stalking, and I took a lot of shit all day long. The sad part is I never got to apologize to her and tell her she doesnt need to worry about anything. The song i put is about me finding life after many years of darkness, knowing that I cant be with her and it will hurt but grateful she woke up that piece of me. Last thing i wanted was to fuck with her way of making a living. That was it. She is spectacular and special in many ways. And I am human, I saw a.wonderful woman, I never so a piece of meet or a collection of holes as some of the man has sescribed women here. So I am human. So if that makes me a creep, well I guess I am ... let the abuse begin ... Originally Posted by downtownfellow

Okay and I feel you on all of that babe but you have to understand women in our line of work and stalked, creeped on, and even murdered by guys who are mentally unstable to understand that this is a FANTASY.
Making her feel uncomfortable is sure fire way to ensure you never see her again.
Even if she did make you feel some type of way you have to keep it cool. She was probably just trying to ensure you were enjoying her company and would see her again by encouraging some light convo. Because like you mentioned we are all HUMAN, and when that connection is formed it can be hard not to get swept away but you have to keep that in check because her #1 priority is her SAFETY and anyone who violates that gets cut off.
(I dont know the provider I'm just generally speaking.)

Good luck to you...

The sad part is I never got to apologize to her and tell her she doesnt need to worry about anything. Originally Posted by downtownfellow

you can send a PM to say that.. or assume the post you just made will communicate that. but if you really care about her, stay the Hell away.. she did the right thing, and you should realize that by now.

Okay and I feel you on all of that babe but you have to understand women in our line of work and stalked, creeped on, and even murdered by guys who are mentally unstable to understand that this is a FANTASY.
Making her feel uncomfortable is sure fire way to ensure you never see her again.
Even if she did make you feel some type of way you have to keep it cool. She was probably just trying to ensure you were enjoying her company and would see her again by encouraging some light convo. Because like you mentioned we are all HUMAN, and when that connection is formed it can be hard not to get swept away but you have to keep that in check because her #1 priority is her SAFETY and anyone who violates that gets cut off.
(I dont know the provider I'm just generally speaking.)

Good luck to you... Originally Posted by ACharmXo

Thank you, that is the part that hurts, that I never got the chance to tell her I am so sorry for freaking her out. I.hate the fact that she feels unsafe. The was the last thing I wanted. I feel like shit for making her uncomfortable. She is a great provider, guys love her ... and i dont want to fuck with that ... sorry ...

you can send a PM to say that.. or assume the post you just made will communicate that. but if you really care about her, stay the Hell away.. she did the right thing, and you should realize that by now. Originally Posted by Chung Tran

Yes, sir you are correct. I am moving on, with the hope she reads my posts and know I understand her decision 100%. And this will be the last time I speak of this, so we all can move on. Thanks Tran.