Still fairly new to all of this but, have been very fortunate so far. Through some research of reviews and some great pm conversations with providers. I have had some great experiences. I'm getting comfortable with knowing what to look for in providers and asking what I want for new experiences. I can honestly say the reviews have made for so much more enjoyable visits. Just want to say that I had been missing out but, no longer.
Happy to hear you are enjoying yourself! As with most things, proper research will save you a lot of time/money/grief and taking the time to know what you want, in the hobby, most often than not, translates into having mutually enjoyable experiences because you find a lady who is compatible and, likely, will find you compatible as well.
Have fun!!
Camille