New guy

Hey everyone. I've been trolling the site for a couple weeks now and I hope that I'm posting in the right place. Totally new to this sort of thing and looking for a little advice.

The wife and I are looking to get with someone in the Wichita area. Only problem, I have no idea how to set that up, and I have no idea if anybody actually sees couples. Second problem, I can't figure out to actually meet anybody when everybody asks for references, and we're new to this. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, as I'm trying to jump on this as long as the wife keeps asking. Gotta make it happen quick haha.

Hey Im in Kc not sure I can help ya.....you never did go by the name harley did ya?

Just kiddin....welcome to the site and hope ya find what your lookin for

BS - look through the profiles for gals that are "newbie friendly". If that doesn't work for you, you may want to look into P411.

I'm newbie friendly but I don't eat pussy. Take from that what you will.

BigStick,

Welcome to the board.

As someone who sees couples and enjoys the ladies, be honest with whomever you get in contact with. Chances are you're going to have do an employment verification if you pick a lady who is well known and screens like crazy.

Don't discuss any activities though, you'll get hung up on.

Good luck!

Thanks guys. It's all a little overwhelming at first. Hoping that after the first time, it'll get easier. Just want it to go smoothly for everybody involved. If you guys happen to have any recommendations for girls in the wichita area, I'd really appreciate it.

I'm newbie friendly but I don't eat pussy. Take from that what you will. Originally Posted by SillyGirl

That was meant to be a joke. Welcome to eccie..Follow Elenas advice would be my advice.

You may find that you'll have a more enjoyable experience at one of the many voyeur / swing clubs in the area . . . Many professional ladies have higher fees for couples, after all, it is two people they're fucking (hence, twice the work). I wonder if your fantasy is truly best served by engaging a lady from this endeavor when they are so many other opportunities for couples . . . ijs. Also, be aware that LE loves to pose as a couple - with no references, you're in for an uphill climb engaging a quality Escort.

Good luck, be safe!

Kisses,

- Jackie

@Jackie-Thanks for the heads up. Disappointing to know that it will be even more of a heads up battle than it already has been, but perhaps it's worth it. We had thought about the swingers scene, but surprisingly that makes both of us even more uncomfortable. I don't know, I'll keep being persistent, and we'll see what happens.

I like your handle bigstick.

Cause its like, a euphemism. Hawt.