The question is at what point is the fantasy shattered? Is the fantasy shattered after you've seen the provider or can the fantasy be shattered prior to the meeting?
If you truly are looking for a fantasy session, would it be better not knowing a providers preferences if you didn't fit the mold?
For example: Provider A states in public forum she has a preference for hairy guys and she loves running her fingers through a hairy chest. She has also stated that a bare chested guy reminds her of something undesirable. Would a hobbiest without a lot of body hair be able to enjoy a session with Provider A knowing she isn't fully commited to the session?
Another Example: If I dip my wick in a size-queen's Y, she isn't going to be satisfied. I'm average in size, it's just a fact and I'm not complaining. Even though I do attempt to satisfy my partner in a p4p situation, why would I waste my money on a fantasy with a provider whom I knew wasn't going to be satisfied?
My response to the initial query is, that I would rather not know the provider's preference. I know the other obvious answer is to move on to the next
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