I No Longer Offer GFE! I Offer The Illusion of Passion!

No PPE, this is NOT an ad! LOL! Love ya, buddy!

This morning I was having coffee with a new found hobbyist friend and I asked him what GFE meant to him! I know what it means to me, but for some reason, there are alot of gentleman and LADIES who really don't know the true meaning! Whether it means every activity in the alphabet, it may not mean the same for you! For my new friend, it means the, "Illusion of Passion"! It's the touch of the hand ever so gently on the body, soft lips brushing against your lips, a warm breath on your neck while we snuggle, etc! So, from this day forward, I will no longer use the term, GFE! I don't want to fuck, I want to make love!

Your thoughts?

Well, FUCK IT! I'd rather make love, too.....LOL!

You can call me a fan of "the interactive" session...hee hee hee.

Well, FUCK IT! I'd rather make love, too.....LOL!

You can call me a fan of "the interactive" session...hee hee hee. Originally Posted by Randy4Candy

LMAO! Randy, you damn fool!

Lana, to which GFE are you referring?

Is it "new" GFE where she's hot and horny or "long term" GFE where the legs swing apart and the egg timer is clicked on?

Lana, you are one fine illusionist. . .

Aww! Now why did you go and close the Gender Fur Exchange? I thought that was always the best part!

It's all just a fantasy anyway.
Walk out the door and it's like it never happened.

I don't have a problem with the illusion of passion, it's the illusion of orgasm that kinda puts me off.

In the spirit of humor, good will, and fairness to all...lol. My thoughts and without negativity-

Lana this is a fuckin' ad!

Still the illusion of passion is a happy thing...and a very important part of GFE.

Whether it means every activity in the alphabet, it may not mean the same for you! For my new friend, it means the, "Illusion of Passion"! It's the touch of the hand ever so gently on the body, soft lips brushing against your lips, a warm breath on your neck while we snuggle, etc! So, from this day forward, I will no longer use the term, GFE! I don't want to fuck, I want to make love!

Your thoughts? Originally Posted by Lana Warren

My thoughts are that the activities that are expected for a GFE, (BBBJ, Kissing, CFS, multiple positions, msog), are basically the very minimum that any guy would expect from a girlfriend or even a one night stand. I would think it would be hard to call something a girlfriend experience if it's even less like any experience with a civilian, much less a girlfriend than the usual definition implies. Advertising the illusion of passion is nice, but I was never able to buy into an illusion of any sort very well, so I sort of took the illusion part as a grain of salt and unlikely to happen even when all of the activities were there. If I had found an illusion convincing, I probably would still be in the hobby.

You don't have to be a GFE to be successful, so I don't see any need to do anything but what you do best and are comfortable doing.

The GFE "alphabet" experience is mostly about the sex. Making love with "passion" requires another organ's involvement - the brain. Skin to skin contact (touch) can be the GFE "surface" experience. Add in the other senses (hearing, smell, taste) and two people can drill below the surface and find the resovoirs of passion.

Had this very discussion recently with a long time professional friend. She, like many females, thought of sex with a girlfriend to mean some illusion of emotional connection. I countered with what I believe most men in the hobby believe. When we think GFE, we think of the ACTS that a girlfriend would do.

Reasonable me can disagree, but a girlfriend wouldn't ask you to put a condom on before she blew you. She definitely would DFK. She probably would go for MSOG. Beyond that, we might be talking about a KGFE (kinky girlfriend experience) or RHGFE (really horny girlfriend experience).

I've had plenty of girlfriends who didn't want me to blow in their mouth or take a trip to Greece. They were good girlfriends just the same.

When I'm hobbying I would rather have the illusion of passion, the GFE is not my bag of tricks.

With the GFE experience I'm afraid when I get they the provider will want me to work on her car, help her mow the lawn, move the furniture around three are four times, Carrier the laundry to her closet, nag and bitch about something I did are not do, tell me how her life is harder than anybody Else's

By golly when I pay for time I want the FULL illusion package if I wanted GFE I would not hobby I would go home and turn the TV up louder

My thought is that this threAD has not been given proper exposure. LOL

Let's get nekkid and see what all this lover makin' illusion is all about!!

Illusion???? Geee where did you make that thing disappear to?