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I have been on Seeking for a few weeks and thought I would share some thoughts with you about my experiences.

#1. I am incredibly popular in South America (especially Venezuela) as well as Eastern Europe. I probably get “favorited” a dozen times a day from those locales. I am somewhat popular in the Philippines, Canada and the southern US. As for local women, not so popular.

However, a few local women favorited me and I wrote them a nice message back but none of them replied back. I don’t get this at all.

#2. I favorited several women who indicated they were interested in older men and FWB and wrote them a nice message but mostly no replies.

#3. The few replies I received then ghosted me after a couple of exchanges.

#4. I did receive interest from two local escorts I have not seen elsewhere. Very high priced. There was one escort recently reviewed here on Seeking with better pictures than on Tryst.

#5. I also received a reply from one traveling high $ escort from Texas and I have not seen her before either.

#6. My search parameters were for slim women. You would be amazed what some women consider to be “slim”.

#7. I am also surprised at some of the unattractive pictures some women post of themselves. They look like they are being held hostage. One young woman is frowning and says she is a fun time.

#8. I am also surprised at how some moderate to unattractive women seem to think some guy will pay big money to be their SD with no sex involved (at least according to their profile). Are there really guys who only want a SD relationship with no sex? I guess it doesn’t cost anything to try and who knows who might bite. But really?

#9. Only two scammers so far wanting money in advance. One told me she was in Wichita, willing to travel, and could prove it since she could tell me the current temperature in Wichita was 91. Wow. That certainly makes her real.

#10. There are at least two trans on the site if you are looking for that.

That’s my report from the front lines.

I am hoping for better news soon.

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#6. My search parameters were for slim women. You would be amazed what some women consider to be “slim”.

#7. I am also surprised at some of the unattractive pictures some women post of themselves. They look like they are being held hostage. One young woman is frowning and says she is a fun time.

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Getting a real world hook up is faster and easier than a successful date on that site0 Originally Posted by cmore197474

Yip, It is all a big joke to a lot of girls. A real world hook is much easier, but then you can't pay her when you want her to leave.

It all depends on what you want. If you are serious about a date, the net is just not the right playground sometimes.

I have a good friend who had his family introduce him to a nice young lady from out of town. The distance dating by airline flights seems to be a pain for him, but things must be going well he is flying out to meet her family soon.

What is the best way to meet someone? I don't know. Just talking about nothing. Your guess is as good as mine.

BAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! Kansas City STANDARD!!!!!!!!! Originally Posted by playa76

Im sure the trannies and amp girls are saying the exact same thing when you arrive

That about sums it up. Still I have had decent luck on the site. Only place you can find a revolving door of 18-25 girls around here. Most but not all will hang with you for more than an hour.


I would say a lot of the girls think they can do this but chicken out. Some are so stupid, they use their real FB pics or have their number tied to their account. So you know who they are before you meet in person.


I am amazed at how many think no strings attached doesn't include sex. Plus none of the ones who want big bucks, will have an in call. They expect you to pay for the room too. Desert Rose comes to mind.

It does waste a lot of time and your membership dues could be saved for a high dollar touring girl. Still the girls are very low mileage.

I've been on tinder for 30 months and i refuse to pay for premium , so my matches are all mutual. It just takes awhile for us to match up.
I swipe on 20% of the profiles for the females under 35
I've matches with over 150 females and most of them i never got a reply. Some of them where kinda hot and you can bet you would have to pay just to be in the same room.
15 got back with me and was looking to be a sb without us meeting.
A few wanted to be a sb and meet but they where below average in looks or wanted some big $$ to meet. One girl did porn and wanted me on camera.
I matched with some chicks that i clearly swiped in the wrong direction. In the end, i met none of the girls on tinder.

The females from far away are trying to con you into sending them money without you meeting