Broken anonymity by fellow provider

What should I do....

A provider that I brought into this business because she was down and out, (I would have called her a friend then) outed me to someone I was seeing because she THOUGHT I told her real world job what she does. I would never do that to an enemy let alone a "friend". It turned out to be the creepy dude ( I saw long ago and refused to see again due to his aggression) that she was playing for money that called her job and outed her, he has all but admitted it now. He has even bad mouthed me because I chose to stop seeing him.

To "get even with me" she also sought out and slept with the person I was trying to have a relationship with at the time and then she then proceeded to show him all of my escorting info on several sites. (this all happened without her telling or asking me a thing about it) She then ranted about me on twitter as well, but has since deleted it because she was incorrect.

I found out last night that she has taking screenshots of my p411 screen and is showing it to people I know as well as directing them to my eros page (which is now down). I saw the screenshots with my own eyes.

Any suggestions on what I should do? I never in a million years thought I would be dealing with this because I try to treat everyone with respect and definitely keep everyone safe and anonymous. I am so hurt and mad because I tried to lift her up when she was down. Not to mention she could be considered direct competition to me but I didn't mind because I feel there is enough to go around. Are there any measures I can take to make her stop? Thank you in advance for your help and time.

Well that is a breach of ediquette!

The hobby is all about privacy and annomolly!

You might need to change your name dear. Once outed - if you want to preserve your RL info, you will need to delete and re-invent yourself.

I guess disappear is what I will do. Can anything be done to the woman that did this?

Can anything be done to the woman that did this? Originally Posted by Scout Schaffer

Other than reporting her to P4 (if she's a member) Not much more than the same shit she has done to you.
Good luck

At least you found that your potential boyfriend was actually trash. I would hit back hard at this person.

Maybe you should be honest about your past I don’t know just saying. I once fell for a provider we became very close even tho I tried to fight the feelings. I knew all about her past but was willing to accept it. She quit escorting for me. We fell apart for other reasons . I helped her to find an honest living but it was just a short time later she was reposting and back to what she knew. You will change your lifestyle when you’re ready but it’s going to be very difficult to quit the way you earn money and earn money some other way so I think a real life relationship based on lies will never work.

I guess disappear is what I will do. Can anything be done to the woman that did this? Originally Posted by Scout Schaffer

Probably not. My advice is to walk away. If you decide to "declare war", that will not end well for anyone. It doesn't seem fair, and isn't as satisfying as getting revenge, but in the long run it will work out better.

Finally, karma is a bitch. It will catch up to her eventually.

Stay beautiful.

I guess disappear is what I will do. Can anything be done to the woman that did this? Originally Posted by Scout Schaffer

That sucks so bad, luv. TRUST NO ONE these days. I have had numerous responses to send a pic, etc. Go down that rabbit hole and I am gone, no matter how pretty or fuckable.

I am even renting cars if I feel the need.

You're way too good of a provider to hide, just ignore those two. Lesson learned, eh?

Cheers

Is this the bat shit crazy friend of yours that you set me up with that went nuts on me? Accusing me of a bunch of shit that didn’t happen and lied to you about it?

I know the provider who you are referring to and you are not being honest or sharing the whole story either Scout. Your boyfriend was never in the dark about you being in the industry nor did she out you! He had full disclosure about everything you did abd you are trying to be vendictive. You did have something to do with her being fired and outed . And you are the one who got so jealous when a client started sering her. He paid her to leave the industry and she did that is not playing someone for money. This provider is very reputable and to try to continue to ruin her name because she and you cant get a long is unnecessary and using the boards and these threads for your drama shows what kind of person you truly are. The provider isn’t even a member here so can’t defend herself . That’s why you chose to bring your drama here .

Please show the screenshots of her doing this and sending it to people. Do you have anything to back up these serious claims ?

Is this person a Member of Eccie?

Screenshots are not allowed

I have heard this scenario playing out so often in the hooker world...it's unreal.


Always remember, there are 3 sides to every story.