Ha! I just had butt sex! WOO HOO!!!!

So Dharma suggested I start my own thread about it...so here ya go!

Yeah, I just did it.

I'm gonna do it again in the next day or two...any suggestions on how to make it seem like I'm a pro?? I bought some of that ass-numbing cream but it burned like the Dickens and I will never try that again. Seems like spit and lube worked just fine.

Do butt plugs really help? Should I go buy a butt plug??? They are so scary looking!!

Any butt sex suggestions are welcomed

Lots and lots of spit!!!

Holy shit, that is the funniest thread title I've EVER seen. I'm so glad you're back Dannie. OH and hey I have the freaking answer for you. Go get the stuff called Anal ease me. That shit makes it an unbelievable experience. I haven't done it more than 18 months or so but I still have very fond memories of awesome butt sex with that stuff. Get it from condoms to go. ENJOY.

there are several lubes out there...some are oil based and some are water based! i highly suggest the water based ones...one in particular is the WET brand that is water based.

Use lots and lots of lube....

have fun...

NO SPIT, people. Yes, the porn movies make it look attractive, but anal sex is more likely to abrade the skin, especially when someone is new at it, and no matter HOW clean you think you are some bacteria from your saliva can create infections (not to mention the other bacteria lurking in that tunnel), and lube is much safer and more effective. Grease it up! NO ass-numbing cream, either, or how will you know if the fellow is getting TOO enthusiastic? Condoms are more likely to break during anal sex than in any other act, btw. Tight quarters, not as much room to slip and slide, ya know.

hhmmmm....lovingkayla or dannie.......i shall have both.

Kayla!!! Why wasn't I notified of this option!!!

The "Anal Ease" may be the butt numbing stuff she she used... I hope not. I actually have lots of it... but I don't use it for anal. Ladies it makes a wonderful numbing gel to use right before a bikini wax.

There have been lots of talk on here about this b4. Use a waterbased lubricant like astroglide (there are many to choose from) and relax. Don't let anyone force it on you. Instead make sure you go at your own pace.

Butt plugs are great. They are a plus for the gentleman you are with also. For one, most love easing it in and taking it out. Furthermore, it creates a nice feeling for him and yourself while he is stroking your V.

The most important thing, well for me, is to be completely aroused. If I'm not into the person it's impossible for me to relax enough to do it.

Try being on top or spooning for initial entry until you are more used to it. If your on top kissing or having him caress/play with your breasts is a great relaxer and allows you to control the pace and depth.
While spooning you can feel his breath on your neck or kisses on your shoulder etc.

Anyway ya do it... Be safe and have fun.
You'll be getting pounded in no time... Omg... Can't believe I just said that.

So Dharma suggested I start my own thread about it...so here ya go!

Yeah, I just did it.

I'm gonna do it again in the next day or two...any suggestions on how to make it seem like I'm a pro?? I bought some of that ass-numbing cream but it burned like the Dickens and I will never try that again. Seems like spit and lube worked just fine.

Do butt plugs really help? Should I go buy a butt plug??? They are so scary looking!!

Any butt sex suggestions are welcomed Originally Posted by Dannie

If you need a guinea pig-so to speak- I'm here for you. We can work through this together.

Screw the butt numbing stuff... why numb it? You miss out on so much! Just relax... LOTS of lube, and a gentleman that takes it slow and easy until you are at a place that you want him to pound it. Patience

Been lusting after this handsomely crafted piece for a few months now. Might be a nice way to relax and enjoy before the actual act...

Screw the butt numbing stuff... why numb it? You miss out on so much! Just relax... LOTS of lube, and a gentleman that takes it slow and easy until you are at a place that you want him to pound it. Patience Originally Posted by reese foster

Say the word...

My wife has a bottle opener just like that Tony, what has that got to do with "butt sex"???

-Pt-

My wife has a bottle opener just like that Tony, what has that got to do with "butt sex"???

-Pt- Originally Posted by PT4ME

PT

Just spit coffee all over my keyboard! LMAO!!!

Never quite looked at it that way, but now that you mention it maybe it can do double duty...

TP

You all get butt numbing from that? OH lord I didn't. It tingles and relaxes the little opening for me. It probable wouldn't work on me now since it's been so long but I think all those scare stories are bupkiss. Of course never try anything new with a guy you don't know and trust. And for the record if anyone spits on my ass hole we're gunna have words.