Screening conundrum

OK, so I was on ASPD basically since it started maybe 2003. I was largely a lurker and have been out of the hobby for about a year because of a relationship. Also pretty much all of my references with the exception of a couple are retired. The couple who are no likely do not recall me as it has been over a year since I have seen them. I am not comfortable with P411, just not. I am self employed, one man show so my cell is my work phone, and have no office, boss, etc.

I used to get by with a PM or two from my handle at ASPD. I assume most woman figured if the handle was 6-7 years old they were in the clear

So any ideas on how to get screened or am I SOL.

Thanks in advance.

You are SOL

yeah man SOL on a screen of you I mean what are you going to do I dont think you can even get screened to get p411 at this point, even if you wanted p411. Hey go out and try to see some girls here see if you can get one to meet you.

Or if you can find one of the girls you saw before go see her again, if she is on this board or p411 she may be able to be your ref after that. You may want some of the prize winners here but you will have to crawl before you can walk NEWGUY.

Whatever your handle was, it still is just on eraps.net err if that site is still up says db down.

I won't tell you who to see either (wont make le job easy, just in case), but there are quite a few girls that don't screen at all. Have your shit together and start making calls and you will be able to see someone.

There are providers out there for people in your situation. Do some research and see them. It isn't going to fall on your lap.

If you see a BP provider that will accept newbies then you have to worry whether they will actually respond to a reference check.
That seems to be a big issue all of a sudden

I thinck you are SOL.

There are a great many ways to be screened, even for a self employed one man show such as yourself. You just have to be willing to give the information requested.

Er, ah, you have been lurking for over 7 years? This post has come up dozens and dozens of times over the years, and you still don't have your answer.....

Bro, you might be the real deal, who ever really knows, but its an odd handle and an even odder request.

Something isn't passing the .....smell test.

BTW, ASPD started in 1999 not 2003

Just Say'n

OK, so I was on ASPD basically since it started maybe 2003. I was largely a lurker and have been out of the hobby for about a year because of a relationship. Also pretty much all of my references with the exception of a couple are retired. The couple who are no likely do not recall me as it has been over a year since I have seen them. I am not comfortable with P411, just not. I am self employed, one man show so my cell is my work phone, and have no office, boss, etc.

I used to get by with a PM or two from my handle at ASPD. I assume most woman figured if the handle was 6-7 years old they were in the clear

So any ideas on how to get screened or am I SOL.

Thanks in advance. Originally Posted by NewGuy

I suggest you go with P411, it is really not that bad and once it is done.....it's done!........GinaXXX is a member here she runs P411......so send her a pm with your concerns and go from there..........

You were in the hobby on ASPD for 5 or 6 years and took a year off and you don't remember how to pass screening?
I am referring to before your handle was 6 or 7 years old.
Were you in an accident , suffer from a medical condition or anything like that ?
Otherwise I would think it would be easy to do something you've already done, kinda like riding a bicycle, but maybe not

Did you know there is a tribe that has lived in isolation for some time, never having contact with what we consider basic technology. These tribes think that screening may steal/capture their souls.

Reconsider joining P-411, it's actually painless and what little pain there is....you will live through it.

well I would say that you should either try to see an agency that accepts new costumers... and of course join p411!!!!!!!!!!! I dont understand why anyone in the hobby would NOT feel comfortable with p411!!!! I hope that this helps sweetie! I might be able to work with ya if you can come up with some kind of work verification.... pm me if you want

Did you know there is a tribe that has lived in isolation for some time, never having contact with what we consider basic technology..... Originally Posted by RebeccaRothko

Are you talking about us old guys here at the "Home"....

OK, so I was on ASPD basically since it started maybe 2003. I was largely a lurker and have been out of the hobby for about a year because of a relationship. Also pretty much all of my references with the exception of a couple are retired. The couple who are no likely do not recall me as it has been over a year since I have seen them. I am not comfortable with P411, just not. I am self employed, one man show so my cell is my work phone, and have no office, boss, etc.

I used to get by with a PM or two from my handle at ASPD. I assume most woman figured if the handle was 6-7 years old they were in the clear

So any ideas on how to get screened or am I SOL.

Thanks in advance. Originally Posted by NewGuy

Uh... did you attend a Social...