Many men are uncomfortable having another man in the room. Could be for various reasons, incidental touching, seeing another man naked, or afraid of being outdone ie size, performance, etc.
The focus on MFM needs to be on the woman if both men are straight. Don't worry about the other guy, just that you are adding to the experience of the lady. This is why people in the lifestyle (swingers) understand this and dont have a problem. I at first was somewhat nervous in my first 3some MFM and group but learned to relax and enjoy the time. No sword play done ever.
Originally Posted by xperiment
Welcome honey, I am glad to see you finally made it here...
Now back to the topic at hand I believe you hit it right on
the button....very well said.....