I don't know why people have such a hard time calling it what it is, SEX. it's just Sex. that is the basic neutral realistic and accurate term for it. why it is so hard to say? it's shorter then the word fuck/fucking anyways
Originally Posted by Secret_Amore
It may be "just sex" to you because it's an everyday, or perhaps several-times-a-day, experience for you. To some guys with youth and looks, or more than enough money, perhaps it's "just sex," too. But as a guy who eats lunch at his desk partly so he can have more than one date a month with a friend-for-an-hour (and again, speaking only for myself but hoping that others feel the same), I can tell you that I have a very different perspective. "Just sex" is what I do in my office after my co-workers leave.
I get that you might not want to call it "making love." But the ability to spend an hour intertwined with the body of a beautiful young woman who unleashes in you feelings that you never had or forgot about a long time ago, can be, with the right partner a beautiful thing. Even if you're yelling "fuck me" so loudly that the folks next door are calling to complain, calling what you're doing "just sex" or even "fucking" describes only the physical component and doesn't do justice to the feelings that the activity can inspire.
One of the mysteries of the hobby is how the good ones can take what for them is that everyday or several-times-a-day experience and completely satisfy the client's need for a life-affirming experience.