Providers that ARE NOT reference friendly

You do have the right to be haters and not give out references, I don't get it but it's your right.

If you are one of these girls why don't you put it on your profile and in each and every one of your ads and let your clients know this BEFORE they book with you. Guys see girls (especially newbie friendly ones) to gain references to see OTHER girls.

It would save all (CLIENTS AND PROVIDERS) of us a bunch of time if you did.

Thanks

Would taint photos help with the references?

Why does every thread have to be about Tara?

Great thread....i have lots of newbie guys who want to see me but the newbie friendly girls they are seeing don't appear to be reliable references.

These newbies aren't using you ladies...they're doing what any other Hobbyist would do..building references or at least trying to so they can see other ladies on their tdl.

I highly doubt they'll post here...they'll lose business.

Do providers actually lie about seeing people or just not respond? That's pretty messed up.

Do providers actually lie about seeing people or just not respond? That's pretty messed up. Originally Posted by LunarFae

I've seen it go down as follows:

1. Says they never saw the guy.
2. Doesn't respond at all.
3. Responds, but contacts guy to give a sweeter deal

We need a list of the liars I think for us providers to reference. Guys always see more than one girl wtf are they trying to accomplish by lying. I'd rather just have someone not respond.

I think some of you Drama Queens need to just cut to the chase and put these time wasters of your profession on BLAST and name them...It would help dudes to maybe decide to not seem them if they are a newbie and not getting a reference out of it...Why the 'shots across the bow', they'll just ignore it like they do the reference request, my opinion.

Why does every thread have to be about Tara? Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Ouch.

Thank you looser.

Signed,

theFakeTara

If a girl tells me she didn't see a guy that is always information I'll relay back to him. There isn't a way for me to prove it either way so it'd have to be the guys making the list.

I think some of you Drama Queens need to just cut to chase and put these time wasters of your profession on BLAST and name them...It would help dudes to maybe decide to not seem them if they are a newbie and not getting a reference out of it...Why the 'shots across the bow', they'll just ignore it like they do the reference request, my opinion.



Ouch.

Thank you looser.

Signed,

theFakeTara Originally Posted by ManSlut

Ouch.

Thank you looser.

Signed,

theFakeTara Originally Posted by ManSlut

And don't you love the irony of a hooker calling someone looser? I know the whole kegel exercise thing but leave it to Tara to misspell a 5th grade word.

Edit: On topic, I provide references.

This is something I battle with (definitely can own up to that lol) ! A lot of times (Usually when I'm free) I can respond back to back to ladies for refs .... Then There are times I replies hours later (usually when busy). Nothing personal.
I've Thought about setting out a time for ladies to contact me for refs and posting in my showcase/website! But then I don't want to send the wrong idea to ladies contacting me. Maybe that would be nice idea for ladies to start?


But THEN AGAIN, Ladies we know how lazy/busy/UTR/Etc some of the men are lol!
Note to self: Never Forget To reply to Jules Sexy ass !

If a girl tells me she didn't see a guy that is always information I'll relay back to him. There isn't a way for me to prove it either way so it'd have to be the guys making the list. Originally Posted by LunarFae

Sorry, you have a point, but I thought the OP's post was about Providers ignoring reference requests...My bad.

But if this thread had some of these female violators named and if Dudes are getting turned down with referencing a lady that says she didn't see him, they can also put her name on BLAST here as well or the Dudes can start their own BLAST thread about these time wasters.

Like the lady above you mentioned sometimes they're just busy.
I am not offended by people not responding I'll move on to the next reference or let the guy know not today. Men with fewer references should know that they probably need to allow more time for scheduling and aren't as likely to get an appointment within the hour.

It's the lying that would infuriate me. If they want to lower their rate to entice a guy to see them instead of me that's on them. I am not so desperate I need to stoop to that to pay my bills. 💖✨🦄🍓🐇

Sorry, you have a point, but I thought the OP's post was about Providers ignoring reference requests...My bad.

But if this thread had some of these female violators named and if Dudes are getting turned down with referencing a lady that says she didn't see him, they can also put her name on BLAST here as well or the Dudes can start their own BLAST thread about these time wasters. Originally Posted by ManSlut

Well today I had another provider more or less tell me to do my own fucking reference check... like I thought that was what the hell i was doing by asking you? Idk it was strange.

No I'm not going to name names (sorry drama kings)... they know who they are and i do let the guys know when ladies don't respond, get bitchy, have amnesia, or have ignored me in the past. Naming them would just cause drama and fighting which I think there is enough of that going on here right now.

Just wanted to suggest that the ladies who refuse to give references be up front about it. Maybe guys should ask before scheduling? I honestly don't think they should have to though.

This is something I battle with (definitely can own up to that lol) ! A lot of times (Usually when I'm free) I can respond back to back to ladies for refs .... Then There are times I replies hours later (usually when busy). Nothing personal.
I've Thought about setting out a time for ladies to contact me for refs and posting in my showcase/website! But then I don't want to send the wrong idea to ladies contacting me. Maybe that would be nice idea for ladies to start?


But THEN AGAIN, Ladies we know how lazy/busy/UTR/Etc some of the men are lol!
Note to self: Never Forget To reply to Jules Sexy ass ! Originally Posted by DaniellexxRose

That's totally understandable, I'm sure I've missed a request or two over the years also but it's never been intentional.