Provider Screening...

boxcardummie's Avatar
I am completely new to hobbying so I was wondering what is OK to tell a provider and what is too much? I mean... they ask for where I work and stuff and yeah I can understand its leverage against me if I rob them or something but at the same time that's putting my job at risk if they call one night drunk and say I went to see them or if they decide they want to blackmail me. I'm just interested to see what the general rules are from you guys on this.
1ThickBlond's Avatar
Join Preferred411 and you won't have to worry about giving your personal information to providers.
Yes Join P411
pyramider's Avatar
Make the Search tab your friend. Many of life's questions can be answered by searching.
Join p411.....
P411 is a great tool for clients and providers alike
I would say 70% of my clientele come from P411 It is well worth the membership fee. You will still have a pretty stringent screening process but it is a one time deal. They do not keep the info after you have been screened. Once your on there you can start getting OK'd by ladies that you have seen (provided they are members also) and this will avoid the pre-screening hassle for future appointments. It has saved a lot of men the hassle of going through a screening process with a lady and getting seen more quickly.
P411 is the safest, easiest, and fastest way and then search for a provider who is newbie friendly on that site and build your okays then you won't have anyone ask anything for screening.
boxcardummie's Avatar
Hmm all right, thanks everyone.
blowpop's Avatar
I've got a different viewpoint. I've never been a member of P411. And I've never given out personal information as part of a screening process.

The hobby is risky. One way to minimize risk is to keep your personal information private, and that includes giving it to a third party that keeps track of how often you hobby and with whom.

An alternative approach is to start with visits to newbie-friendly providers with less stringent screening, write reviews, get referrals, and get known here. It's amazing how far a positive reputation will take you in terms of being able to keep your personal information to yourself.

To the best of my knowledge P411 has never exposed personal client information. But I'm not willing to bet that it can never happen - big companies make headlines every month when their security has been breached and personal information is exposed by hackers. I hate to think of the number of guys who could have their public reputations destroyed if P411 was ever breached - that makes them a very attractive target.
4karlos's Avatar
P411 is way to go. Besides making it easy for you to find the right providers and booking your appt hassle free, ...the big plus is the peace of mind, knowing that the ods for LE to storm the room are not impossible but really, really low.
EmilyofHouston's Avatar
I don't ask for work info.
I normally ask for 2 references( and something about you that wouls remind her of you)-Name- Phone number-and email.
pyramider's Avatar
I cannot remember what I was going to type ... Nice avatar ...
Yessux i need to join this pm system
sorry ment to say pm system sux