Lack of Discretion

There can be many reasons for changing a handle. Some are because the provider is trying to pull a fast one, like Stephanie. But they could be trying to protect themselves from VERY bad people.

Some of you guys have no idea what a lady goes through sometimes to be in the hobby. All you see is a lady making "easy money" by "having fun".

In the future, if you have a question on a provider's identity, you might try PM'ing the person who went to see her. It's called "discretion". Next time you're having trouble making a date with a lady, you might remember this conversation. The ladies certainly will. Originally Posted by BiggestBest

Sort of like your relentless attacks on Alexxxis? I also refuse to take advice concerning discretion from someone that did background checks for at least one past provider but never made it known to the community.

But, to keep this back on target, I do hope that Callie changes from her previous ways, but what I worry about is that instead of trying to improve her service, she took "the easy way out" and just changed her name. Originally Posted by kcbigpapa

kcbigpapa,

Since the original "Callie Review" thread was closed, I will respond to your accusations about me here.

You know full well that the "attacks" on Alexxxis were the result of an attack BY Alexxxis on a group of people that included me. Alexxxis appears to have significantly improved her behavior since then. I haven't heard any negative reports on her in some time. It is unfortunate that you felt the need to remind people of her former behavior in an attempt to slander me. Does discretion matter to you?

As for your accusation that I "did background checks for at least one past provider", let me be clear: I have NEVER done a "background check" for ANYONE!

EVER!

I HAVE been asked by providers for a REFERENCE on a hobbyist (Do you know this guy? Is he safe?). I will ALWAYS give a provider my honest opinion about whether another hobbyist is safe. If you don't like that, too bad! While there is no implied requirement that anyone "make it known to the community" ... there, I've said it for the record.

There WAS a past provider who asked me about you. Did you want me to share everything that I know about what you said and did to that past provider? Does discretion matter to you now?

Callie doesn't need to "change from her previous ways". Her ways are perfectly fine with me and most of the community. No need for you to be concerned about it at all since it's doubtful that she'd ever see you now. And who could blame her?

Again: "Next time you're having trouble making a date with a lady, you might remember this conversation. The ladies certainly will."

Nikki Devine told me a completely different story about you doing background checks for her. Guess she must have lied about you, even though you were one of her staunchest supporters at ASPD. Considering she hated me, I don't know why she would have lied to me.

Also, I could care less whether I ever see Callie. Trust me on this, she was off my list way before I would have been off her list. But keep up the white knighting of her. Her recent Holli reviews speak for themselves.

We are not going to have you two continuing old fights here. The Alexxis thing was dragged onto ECCIE from ASPD which is against the ECCIE philiosophy. Frankly, both of your posts in this thread can be considered personal attacks. Any follow ups will be and will have consequences.