Yup, happened to me tonight too. First time for a NCNS on eccie, I'm EXTREMELY selective & generally know the persons history... After 3 texts post meeting time, I finally got a response. All I expected was a cursory "hey I can't make it", then I might have been able to salvage the night. As it stands, am sitting here with a nice bottle of wine with my (proverbial) dick in my hand...
So, my NCNS cherry has been popped..pretty much fucked up Saturday night though, and I had passed on my UTR-GFE-ATF for this. Lesson learned.