It was inevitable.

Well I was very much a regular of Carmen's. We got to know eachother and got close and I'd help with things when I could. Would send her money beforehand and she'd still see me. Pick up things for her. Sent her money for a room and new phone (twice) which she said we'd see eachother for an hr and she pay me back for the phone (in total sent 450, 150 3x, hence the hr meet). Constantly kept trying to meet thinking our schedules just didn't line up at first. Then yesterday I was set and ready to meet even ready to exchange cash with her so she could have money on her could, we had done it before, but she refused to tell me what hotel she was at. Tried saying "I completely forgot what the name is...are you gonna send it or not". Said if she told me the hotel then I would. After that got the 3rd degree and whole attitude along with a lose my number.

Just remember fellas, some of these girls will never learn and don't care about any help.

Well I was very much a regular of Carmen's. We got to know eachother and got close and I'd help with things when I could. Would send her money beforehand and she'd still see me. Pick up things for her. Sent her money for a room and new phone (twice) which she said we'd see eachother for an hr and she pay me back for the phone (in total sent 450, 150 3x, hence the hr meet). Constantly kept trying to meet thinking our schedules just didn't line up at first. Then yesterday I was set and ready to meet even ready to exchange cash with her so she could have money on her could, we had done it before, but she refused to tell me what hotel she was at. Tried saying "I completely forgot what the name is...are you gonna send it or not". Said if she told me the hotel then I would. After that got the 3rd degree and whole attitude along with a lose my number.

Just remember fellas, some of these girls will never learn and don't care about any help. Originally Posted by Guber2113

Wichita is pathetic anymore

Best way to loose a provider is advance. Been there done that with others.Heard all the sob stories that I'm the only one she can turn too crap. If you give a provider a advance consider it a gift Lol sad but True. Think about it would they advance us pussy ???

Lol yeah I know better too but thought she'd be different with how close we got and what we had done together. Just cause I'm paying doesn't mean I'm desperate enough to let someone continue to take advantage

Best way to loose a provider is advance..... Think about it would they advance us pussy ??? Originally Posted by badboy45tfm

Exactly....like if you get tired of someone in your life...friend, relative, acquaintance, hooker..... just lend them some money lol.

Most of these gals have entitlement issues. If you give one of them money, she'll consider it a gift, no matter what she agrees to. If you ask for re-payment in the form of services, even if you're a longtime "friend-client", she'll be indignant because you're asking her to work for free. That money you gave her has long been spent and she won't even remember what she spent it on. Why should she see you for free when other guys will pay her?

Most of these gals have entitlement issues. If you give one of them money, she'll consider it a gift, no matter what she agrees to. If you ask for re-payment in the form of services, even if you're a longtime "friend-client", she'll be indignant because you're asking her to work for free. That money you gave her has long been spent and she won't even remember what she spent it on. Why should she see you for free when other guys will pay her? Originally Posted by jan-w

Oh we generally know what they spent it on, just cant say here.

Guber I'm sorry you experience this. Some people just need to learn they're better off being honest

who is carmen link been on a hiatus from the hobby! and Guber you knew better b4 you did it idc how close you think you are to these girls we are nothing but a cash machine.

there are many girls on this board that try to rinse money from us with no service intended!

the even sader truth is when girls are exposed and a guy trys to warn other guys when they try this shit were stalking them on the forum!

the mods could care less about us all i can say is RESEARCH RESEARCH REASEARCH!!!... if the girl has a past its on here if you dont know ask in the mens lounge there are plenty of fellas willing to tell all.

the sad fact is the hobby has grown old and tired the most of the lot want more $ for less service!
the sader fact is theres hundreds of guys who reward them for this shitty behavior then bitch when rates increase and after they're done bitching they pay the higher rate anyways.

you guys who do this are the ones allowing the inflation by paying high for less time and less service and for sure less on looks. remeber the $100 bng days nope now a gal wants $250 for a blow pop alone!

Very well said,I'm at a 140 hhr max if they have good reviews.I appreciate all the honest reviews and thoughts

She had never given me a reason not to trust before, I reluctantly did it and after she followed through with meeting up, and we had conversations about it, it was just our thing. Once some drama and stuff happen to her personal life. She got emotional and desperate for money. Not making excuses for her but just saying I know why it happened. We've talked, she's apologized, and of course she's asked two more times for money sent to her. Of course I told her no can do, not until I get what you said you owed me, not after last time

Another thought with a few of these providers that ask for advance. It's a good way for them to get extra money that pimp,baby daddy,or other half don't know about. So in turn no way for them to pay us back. Lol just a thought ��

Best way to loose a provider is advance. Been there done that with others.Heard all the sob stories that I'm the only one she can turn too crap. If you give a provider a advance consider it a gift Lol sad but True. Think about it would they advance us pussy ??? Originally Posted by badboy45tfm

this made me laugh! TRUTH. I actually use that line when asked for money, so you're fronting services? you get them indignant over that one.

hustle culture has taken over. any rando girl can start on onlyfans, loyalfans, premium snap, whatever site is exploiting them as pic banks charging a percentage (the real winners in all of this). just about the hustle and their inability to manage money for... whatever reason

charging more an hour than a lawyer and acting like they work at mickey Ds. they aren't professionals... just hustlers.

mostly. lol. but the little head keeps them in business

don't feed the hustlers 🙂

A lot of yiu guys complain about us older providers, but there's something to be said about us

I had no complaints with you sweetness