There was a story on one of the TV stations, I think channel 6, that someone had put up a real girls picture and cell phone of her mother, but the girl was not a provider. They were getting tired of the phone calls that her Mom was getting from strange men.
When I have to resort to BP due to lack of verified providers in my area, I have an approach that has worked quite well. I ask them if their pics are of them and recent. They all say yes they are. I prefer outcall, so I ask them when they show up will they be upset when I send them away for not being the gal in the pics. This is usually the end of the conversation and I move on to another. This will not work as well with incall as their pimp my step in and try to change my mind.
I have had pretty good success using this approach and found a few gems on BP using it. I enjoy kissing and love DATY, but it is pretty hard to ask for this over the phone and not be setting myself up for solicitation charges.
I also only do half hour sessions with an unverified gal. I always ask if we can extend to an hour if we get along.
Was she unreviewed (is she a new provider or just new to you)?
I'm hardly a new chick to this industry lol but I probably wouldn't be so kind either to a guy I didn't know and hadn't screened yet asking me if I did xyz or to send him pics.
Good luck getting a pic from a BP chick. The overwhelming majority do not post pics of themselves or if it is her, they are very old pics. BP is famous for Bait & Switch. Sending you a pic would expose the fraud they perpetrate. Asking if they kiss is a legitimate question. If she is offended, move on. You will be disappointed if you go in.
for me, it was never about pics being real or not (they were) the problem was, no guy being sent pics ever came through, ever. So I thought they were just using pics to whack off for free or who knows what else.
Never ask to be sent pics, it's a time waster for those with legit pics. Talking about kissing is a sex act, yes. Too explicit for someone not verified.
Asking these of any verified provider is also a no-no.
So basically, no matter what, don't ask to be texted pics, they don't prove anything. I once sent a guy a pic of angelina jolie to try and prove asking that doesn't mean shit but he was like when can I come over?? LOL