So I had an appointment on Thurs. at 1pm. On Wed. I text to see if appointment was still valid? She said that maybe not but she would know in the morning. Morning comes of course no text. I then text at around noon and she says that she just got in and it's been a long day. I know this to mean appointment is off.
Then we were supposed to meet on Sunday at 3pm. I text again to verify appointment. Of course it was a no go again but this time it was supposedly due to some personal reason that was preventing her from getting out of the house. Because of this personal reason, I went from being disappointed to trying to make sure that she was okay. Then as we keep on talking, I find out that she was actually out getting groceries. So I'm now WTF!!!
I had to move my schedule around to accommodate both times. She says we didn't have solid plans. When a provider says she's avail at this time and I respond with an OK, that to me is a solid plan. Do you ladies need more to consider it a set appointment? Is it too much to ask that a provider texts when she knows that she can't make it? Do you ladies think that us guys don't have a life so it's no big deal? Luckily I know by now that a NCNS is always possible which is why I'm anal about checking. I guess I'm really just venting here since I know that bad TCB is not uncommon.