How many men think anal, either way, is gay?

My psycho ex, who dumped me for another guy, then when he dumped her came back for sex, is REALLY into anal. She told me that the guy wouldn't fuck her in the ass because he thought it was gay. I think that's just BIZARRE. For men, do you think that, or do you think that a chick doing anything to your asshole is gay or whatever? And because I think it's relevant, how old are you?
For women, how many men have you encountered who think that way?

I'm 54. I'd never had a woman touch my asshole until I was in my 40's. The first was a woman who gave an amazing blowjob, and the first time she just eased one finger up there and curled it til she was touching my previously-untouched prostate and massaged i gently, resulting in the hardest orgasm I'd ever had up til then. Mind you, she was one of 3 women in my entire life that made me come with just a blowjob, and she had to do the prostate thing to make me come, and thereafter I had her do it every time.

I guess this is two separate issues- thinking fucking a woman in the ass is gay, and thinking anything in your butt is gay.

To each his own. I have a Lady that puts a little pressure on my asshole with her finger during bj (feels really good), she knows I don't want "penetration" but It doesn't a have damn thing to do with being gay. I have 2 Lady friends that insisted I try anal, me fucking them, it was ok I guess. Just not my thing. Again, got nothing to do with being gay. The description of "gay" isn't "I like things shoved in my ass" it's an attraction to the same sex.

The definitions are very fluid these days, but I agree, the two are not mutually inclusive.

I am a giver NOT a receiver.

nothing done with a woman is gay. it may or may not be pleasurable. anything done w a guy is gay. id rather a woman stick her fist up my ass than a man hold my hand. that being said if other feel different good for them. who am i to say.

nothing done with a woman is gay. it may or may not be pleasurable. anything done w a guy is gay. id rather a woman stick her fist up my ass than a man hold my hand. that being said if other feel different good for them. who am i to say. Originally Posted by tinyisgreat

I feel the same about other dudes (that's fuckin nasty) imo, butt, what about Ladies fuckin Ladies with dildos? Gay? It's the only porn I watch, and in real life, it's SO fuckin cool

Anal on a chick isn't gay, it's scary but not gay. Every time I've done it I would go check my cock for poop, been lucky so far.

I love fucking a chick in the ass and certainly don't think it's gay. I prefer my pooper to be a exit only but to each his own. I think the dude your ex was fucking with probably had some homosexual feelings deep down and was scared to find out the truth.

I love fucking a chick in the ass and certainly don't think it's gay. I prefer my pooper to be a exit only but to each his own. I think the dude your ex was fucking with probably had some homosexual feelings deep down and was scared to find out the truth. Originally Posted by RICKDOG8

(smirks) Ya think?

Anal on a chick isn't gay, it's scary but not gay. Every time I've done it I would go check my cock for poop, been lucky so far. Originally Posted by Kickrocks

Me too, yea...poop on the cock...not cool, I'd probably throw up

Anal on a chick isn't gay, it's scary but not gay. Every time I've done it I would go check my cock for poop, been lucky so far. Originally Posted by Kickrocks

ROFL!! Oh, the stories I could tell you.....no, seriously, for a variety of reasons, that almost never happens. The main way you can assure it never happens is plenty of lube. And no anal sex in the morning, ifyaknowhutimean.

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Me too, yea...poop on the cock...not cool, I'd probably throw up Originally Posted by sydmo

Going ass to mouth has that affect on some.... At least you can say you tried....

Ah made shore tha doc thet did mah colon-oss-scuppy was a womb-man. Ah din't wanna wake up inna middle o' no Queer Eye For Tha Low'r GI. If'n Ah'm gonna be corn holed, it's gotta be by a womb-man an fully paid fer by in-shur-once wif nothin' outta-pocket!

I do not like sticking it up the girls butthole. I don't understand what is fascinating about anal.