I travel a lot and find P411 useful. I've got many "OKs" there. In recent months, I've had a bunch of times when I send a P411 request and the provider responds to me without actually having checked my profile (The site tells me when someone looks at my profile). That means she hasn't actually "checked" my references -- and, as we all know, checking references is good for the health and safety of all participants. So, should I be worried about whether these non-checkers are actually healthy and safe?
Sometimes, I've noticed that the provider checks my profile AFTER we've had a date, when I've asked for an OK.
Of course, there are also times when a provider DOES check my profile in advance, and then sends a query to one or more of the providers who have given me an OK. I'm fine with that, though it does mean I haven't had a chance to alert the previous provider that a reference check might be coming.
Ladies, any thoughts on this? Thanks.