I am prepared to get attacked when I bring up this subject. But its been something I keep thinking about. I am probably wrong

So I have been a member of this board for a long time. A respected, kind, well reviewed provider. I have limited time because I work a full time job, and I help take care of my elderly mom. I have more free time on weekends. Yet every weekend the KC board is filled with ads in "weekend lineup" from providers traveling to KC from many different cities. My requests for appointments decrease on weekends. I know about free enterprise and all. We local ladies don't own and control the wonderful men of our great city. I just feel sad and "replaced" cuz somebody new and exciting is visiting. Do any providers feel this way? How do the men feel? Lastly, I am unable to travel or I might do it.

My guess is that most guys have available time during the week; but less (or none) on weekends, due to family requirements.

So I have been a member of this board for a long time. A respected, kind, well reviewed provider. I have limited time because I work a full time job, and I help take care of my elderly mom. I have more free time on weekends. Yet every weekend the KC board is filled with ads in "weekend lineup" from providers traveling to KC from many different cities. My requests for appointments decrease on weekends. I know about free enterprise and all. We local ladies don't own and control the wonderful men of our great city. I just feel sad and "replaced" cuz somebody new and exciting is visiting. Do any providers feel this way? How do the men feel? Lastly, I am unable to travel or I might do it. Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

Hon, unfortunately, this is the nature of the game. Guys are like kids in a candy store, and want to taste all the new flavors. Now, they always have their favorite candies that they'll come back to time and again, but they want to see what else is out there. The most ladies can do is just keep providing quality service, keep themselves relevant and keep enjoying what they do so that it reflects in the dates with their clients. Don't lose heart, sweetness. Remember, there are lots of rubber chickens in pretty boxes. Hobbyists need to learn that lesson the hard way sometimes.

I think Maxwell and Seductrix make very valid points...

Variety is one of the main reasons men find themselves on these boards (imo). For me, something different / new / secret desire type stuff in this area of my lifeis always welcome and exciting. But having the safety and security of a regular provider that takes care of my needs is equally as important.

And true...It is (for me) SO much easier to sneak away during the already hectic week for a little play time, than the lower key weekend days with the family.

Well, to make a comparison...

If you are a server at a restaurant: You'll make most of your money on the weekend shift because that is when most people are going to go out to eat. If you take a shift during the week, you probably won't get very many customers. However, there are still customers that are going to eat, so you still go into work hoping for the best.

So what I'm saying is, yea, you might get out-shined from the traveling providers on the weekend for the most part, but if you are only providing part time, that's going to be one of those challenges. All you can do is just keep posting ads and you'll still get some business. And some business is better than none I would imagine?

They go..they play..they ALWAYS come back.
So..don't fret.
PLUS there are a ton of Gentlemen who travel to this Beautiful City..on a regular basis..it balances out.

I myself like to keep it local and see area providers when possible. Just safer, and usually funner!

"Curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought him back!"

I don't remember which advertiser used this line, but it's mostly true. I would think that if you provide a good (or great!) experience at a reasonable cost, you will see a lot of return business, regardless of whatever new flavors come upon the scene. Also remember that most (?) of these weekend travelling ladies use Sunday as a travel day and early Sunday if the kept appointment volume didn't meet their expectations. There's plenty of horny men to go around in this town.

FYI - This is just my opinion, but you might consider adding more pictures to your showcase to entice your desired customers.

Yes I am one of the "traveling" gals..although I consider myself a halfway-local as I am in KC enough to call it a parttime home base.
I usually come during the week with a saturday thrown in the mix...I usally only do one on the saturday and it is usually a certain repeat friend...I kick ass during the weekdays there but unless that gent takes the saturday slot then weekends are dead.

Just be persistent and build a repeat clientele to where if you are slow then you can offer them a "loyalty" special if needing business.

You are a well reviewed and respected providet here so things should work out good for you if you are patient......best to ya babe!

It all depends on their personal situation. As the weekend (fri-sun) consists my work week, I can only really see girls the other days of the week. Just depends on the guy, though I likely have an odd one compared to most on the board

Thanks all for the positive feedback. Its like in those violent...kill everyone movies. The drug lords have their "turf" and don't want everyone on it! Lol. (Ps. There will be no hit men or shootings based on that comment)..hehe. ILOVE YOU ALL!

I'm not the most active hobbiest but I am the kid in the candy store. I would love to see, feel, have them all for a time. I see a traveling girl if she comes are way, and I like what I see/hear about her rep. But I try to see a good mix of local girls too. I've seen some but not all so I still have a ways to go.

It's hard for almost every provider this time of year because of the holidays, that's why so many girls travel because local business slows down quite a bit. But like everyone said, don't fret, traveling girls don't stay long & things will pick back up just stay positive & don't get down & out about this situation.

I prefer local and developing those relationships with those providers. It also gives you the ability to stretch the itch when your time becomes available.

I honestly prefer local gals for the most part. The ladies on this board are beautiful, kind, and have great skillz! And I absolutely prefer to support our local economy.

But like others I find it easier to get away during the week and I rarely get to play on the weekends.