Why all the hype over providers who provide BBFS. They have always existed and always will. With porn showing BB much of the time, what are we to expect?
Originally Posted by Bull149
The recent "hype" is well-founded. The danger lies in the community becoming complacent because the BBFS issues has "always existed and always will."
Providers are seeing a significant increase in the number of BBFS or VVIP requests from hobbyists. In addition, several of us have noticed that hobbyists we've seen in the past, or providers that we've readily accepted references from in the past, are openly admitted to BBFS within the hobby.
I'm sure you can see why this creates a problem for any provider, especially one that enjoys offering services like BBBJ or DATY. A hobbyist's exposure to any number of unknowns during BBFS with a provider who obviously offers that service to more than one hobbyist creates a domino effect of danger to any providers he sees afterward, and in turn, to any hobbyist those providers see, and any provider those hobbyists see, and so forth.
Aside from the lesser, more treatable issues that can arise, there are serious, incurable diseases to be concerned about. One instance of BBFS can have consequences that may be devastating to the entire community.
The recent "hype" is more of a valid increase in concern about the prevalence of BBFS in the hobby due to a measurable increase in the number of actual requests for BBFS, advertisements offering BBFS, and hobbyists and providers admitting to BBFS within the hobby.
Everyone will react differently to a perceived threat. Here, some choose to ignore the problem. Some choose to alter services offered (i.e., only offering CBJ and taking DATY off the menu), some choose to deny appointment requests from any hobbyists known to associate with BBFS providers, and some choose not to accept references from BBFS providers.
As hobbyists, how do you react when you know that a well-known hobbyist admits to BBFS with a provider? Do you call him out, or applaud his bravery?
On the flipside, how do you feel about the providers who offer BBFS? Do you veer away from her and her compatriots?
What if you were to learn a provider was forced into BBFS during a session?
A few moments thinking about the consequences of the act should reveal a great deal to those who believe it's not a problem.