Guys, do you want or require a provider to send a "this is what I look like right now" photo before you meet?
Ladies, would you be willing to do this if asked by a new client?
I'm new to this. I say that to clarify that my perspective may not be representative of the majority of your clients, but I would really enjoy this with the caveat that less is sometimes more. It is like a child at Christmas. I may know I'm getting the toy I want, but there's still so much joy, excitement, and anticipation in unwrapping it.
If I were to spitball my ideal situation for this, then it would go something like this. We are having a long date; it is not necessarily overnight, but it's not an hour tryst either. . We're gonna meet for dinner, maybe catch a band, go back to the room, and yada yada I shouldn't need to draw anyone here a map. So before this date, take pictures of the getting dressed process and send them in reverse. I'm wearing this, and show the final product. Then, I'm also wearing this, and show less like your upper body in lingerie. Then there's more, I'm also wearing this and show hour entire body in the lingerie under your outer clothes.
For me, that little taste would drive me up the wall all night. I would feel like you valued our time together enough to do something a little special for me (even if you do it for everybody), and every time I touched or looked at you I would think I can't wait to tear this wrapping paper off. Topless might enhance that feeling (and that's debatable), but for me more than topless would likely diminish the tease of it, for lack of a better word.
Seeing "it all" has a time and place I'm sure, but I come from a pre-internet time when we had anticipation instead of instant gratification. Originally Posted by hamptonj
Uh thank you!! Being demure is sexy IMO. Why show it all? Make his mind wonder.. Let him imagine it. Originally Posted by LolahhhhhThat's my thought. Maxim is way more successful than Playboy; that's why Playboy is making the change to a non-nude publication. A lot of that is due to the ratings and available customer base (16 year olds can currently buy maxim but not playboy), but it's also because people can reach into their pocket, pull out a smartphone, and see naked women on the internet doing absolutely anything imaginable any time that they want.