P 411 and My Weird Requirements...

So, a recent stress filled trip to Upstate New York created some desire for a bit of fun. I scouted Eccie and P 411, located three ladies that fit my criteria and corresponded with all three of them. (One at a time, sequentially.)

The tone of the PM's and/or emails was great, passed along my P 411 information, and here's where things went astray. All three ladies agreed to see me, but not a single one of them bothered to check my P 411 profile when I went to the tracking page!

Call me weird, but I like to know a provider has checked up on me (and might even give enough of a damn to look at my preferences) prior to seeing them. So one by one, I crossed them off the list. (Saved a few bucks to enjoy back in the good ole' Dallas community...)

Now if it was Dallas, and I knew the lady's reputation well enough, it might not be that big of a deal. But unknown ladies, in unfamiliar waters...no way am I bothering with them if they can't do their homework, and do their best to play safe too.

So I guess my question is to both the ladies and gents of the board. Ladies, do you always check a gents profile, regardless of who he is? Gents, do you check to see if you're being verified? Just curious.

TP

Great Question and I agree with you Tony.

FWIW, if they check P411 by phone, I do not believe it leave any tracking info... only if they look it up online does it leave any tracking.

FWIW, if they check P411 by phone, I do not believe it leave any tracking info... only if they look it up online does it leave any tracking. Originally Posted by PurplePussyEater

PPE:

Thanks, actually remember hearing that. But in this day and age, and considering we were exchanging emails and PM's, it's a stretch for me to believe that at least one of them wouldn't have logged on to P 411 to check. Besides, even if they checked to OK me by phone, they still couldn't access my profile and preferences that way.

TP

So I guess my question is to both the ladies and gents of the board. Ladies, do you always check a gents profile, regardless of who he is?
TP Originally Posted by Tony Patella

I like to look at his profile to see his references and to get a feel of what he likes and dislikes so i can make him feel comfortable when we see each other.

FWIW, if they check P411 by phone, I do not believe it leave any tracking info... only if they look it up online does it leave any tracking. Originally Posted by PurplePussyEater

Well learn something new everyday, one time I gave a provider my P411 ID she started seeing me, I noticed she wasn't in the tracking info, I asked her why she didn't check me on P411, she said she did, I didn't know they could do it by phone.

Bingo ! Mackenee. You got it baby.

Yes some of us look at your profile and i even ask do you want me to have whatever it was you had in your profile..they seemed happy i looked.

Isn't that the whole point, in having P411.


Imagine That

I always check. It's easy enough to do and I like knowing a little about my client before he arrives.

I agree 100%! Please read our profiles, ladies.

I had a provider in the past list DATO as something she enjoyed. I thought great! DATY and DATO is something I love to give. She even said she read my profile (I even saw she checked it out via tracking). Fast forward a couple of days and she arrives at my ninja kitties dojo. We start BCD action and she starts to laugh during DATO and tells me she hates it. WTF?! Didn't we go over this I thought? Bah! Out the door she went! And this wasn't the first time. Meh...

On a positive note though...I've had several ladies compliment me on actually writing something of substance in my profile (re likes/dislikes). They said a lot of the men leave their profiles blank. So, I guess it goes both ways.

i always look to see if they have checked my profile

Yes some of us look at your profile and i even ask do you want me to have whatever it was you had in your profile..they seemed happy i looked. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

I think the majority of ladies do check profiles and very carefully. Based on my conversation with you, I may even contact one of your OK's. And we all know that anyone can get into any of our sites, I ask questions related to your profile. So please fill them out... I like knowing that you love wine and like having your nipples played with..lol

I would certainily ask the folks at p411, if giving a thumbs up on eht phone shows up in the client tracking info.

I agree with texastee.. i always check if the provider checked my profile.. and if not I make sure I send them a brief description of myself through email.. much better than turning up only to surprise the provider and end-up having a mechanical session..
For the record i'm quite a normal looking guy and don't have any issues and never had a provider that didn't approve of my appearance or behaviour.. but still I don't like to take any chances..
I understand that even though providers are providing a service for money, it is a profession involving intimate physical contact and they'd have their preferences..

These days I'm also making it a point to let the provider know what my expectations from the session are before confirming the appointment.. so that both of us don't end up in an awkward situation..

I've actually asked (via the P411 chat box) whether a provider shows up in tracking if she phones in her query. The answer I got was "yes". There is no way that a provider can access your profile without your knowledge.

Or so I was told.