How do you ladies do it?

I've been trying to put myself in your shoes and I can't do it. I mean, I know its different for a guy, we cannot fake being turned on, we have a barometer like no other...

That aside, assuming good hygiene and grooming, how do you ladies handle being totally turned off by a dates looks or any of the other 100 things that can turn people off?

I'm intrigued/impressed by the professionalism displayed by many ladies on this forum. Granted I've only been on 1 date thus far, but I've read plenty of reviews and I know it can't be easy giving great customer service to every client.

Just curious...

I always wonder that also. I know the providers that screen well and have good connections with other providers know what there getting into before they confirm the appointment. As in if the hobbyist is old, fat etc...

I suspect it is a trade secret and will remain so.

I'm afraid that answering honestly will taint (don't get excited Pyramider, different context) the illusion of passion that I work so hard to present.

Therefore, I plead the 5th.

I'm not sure that's a road you want to go down. How does anyone handle going to work every day? It's a job. As for all the things that might turn someone off, how is that relevant? I do things all day that I don't really want to do, but I get paid. How I feel about it is irrelevant. Money negates my personal feelings.

I'm afraid that answering honestly will taint (don't get excited Pyramider, different context) the illusion of passion that I work so hard to present.

Therefore, I plead the 5th. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

But for people who are realists, they get it. The answer is that you are putting up with a large percentage of clients. And that's ok. The illusion is born the moment the door opens and it dies the moment the door shuts behind you. It's not meant to survive.

You are paying for a performance.
Some are just better actors than others.

Although, for every pig,..... there's a pig lover

You are paying for a performance.
Some are just better actors than others.

Although, for every pig,..... there's a pig lover Originally Posted by Das Ficker

Bingo

I'm not sure that's a road you want to go down. How does anyone handle going to work every day? It's a job. As for all the things that might turn someone off, how is that relevant? I do things all day that I don't really want to do, but I get paid. How I feel about it is irrelevant. Money negates my personal feelings. Originally Posted by elrey2375

Money, of course, is the primary factor. To the guys it's a hobby, but to us it's a job. However, there is something I like and enjoy about each and every one of my clients, or I wouldn't see them.

I don't view myself as a nympho seduced by the prospect of non-stop sex. I genuinely enjoy the fact that I add a little bit of happiness to my hobby friends lives. I help fill a void for a basic human need that might otherwise go unfulfilled.

Look at us as sexual nurses. Nurses don't necessarily relish each particular aspect of their job, but they do feel genuinely fulfilled by the knowledge that they are caring for and helping others who truly need them. Making others feel good is a very powerful thing. It's rewarding. It makes you feel good, too.

You are paying for a performance.
Some are just better actors than others.

Although, for every pig,..... there's a pig lover Originally Posted by Das Ficker

And I thank my lucky stars everyday that some of these lovely ladies are on the top of their game, or that they are true pig lovers...

You are paying for a performance.
Some are just better actors than others.

Although, for every pig,..... there's a pig lover Originally Posted by Das Ficker

I would have to agree with this love. I have a wild imagination so if I just so happen to get that one that just doesn't do it for me, then I think of one who will. ;-*

You are paying for a performance.
Some are just better actors than others.

Although, for every pig,..... there's a pig lover Originally Posted by Das Ficker

After all it is nothing but a business pure and simple.

Anyone that doesn't see it for that is in need of serious mental help.

Pretend you were a male escort catering to women...then you better find a way to keep it up regardless of appearance, personality or hygiene, more-or-less. Our ladies deserve academy awards for their creativity and imaginations considering how sub-par some guys present.

Pretend you were a male escort catering to women...then you better find a way to keep it up regardless of appearance, personality or hygiene, more-or-less. Our ladies deserve academy awards for their creativity and imaginations considering how sub-par some guys present. Originally Posted by traypear

But with all due respect, you ladies have got it easy, there is nothing you need to get ready, just freshen up. All your equipment is status quo and ready to go. Most male escorts are twenty-something and workout fanatics...who do not have to involve more than a couple brain cells to get it up, keep it up, and let the customer ride in any fashion for more than an hour.

For the provider, it's just business. The clients should work hard to not forget that.

In my business, I have clients that I do honestly enjoy being around, but I still wouldn't do anything for them for free. I also have clients that I do not enjoy, and I DEFINITELY wouldn't do anything for them for free. What they both have in common.... I do it for the money; it's a business.