Here's a decent summary for the reluctant or even seasoned Datyist:
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Agreed. Gents are usually very receptive to direction, if I offer any. As Ms. Marie said, generally I can tell if he is doing it for fun or obligation, and the ones doing it for fun are very open to being informed on what will make me start climbing the walls. :P Very few seem to just be doing it out of obligation, though. Most times if they aren't that into doing it, we'll just skip the activity all together. I find it very encouraging how many men just love it. I don't think I've ever had a gent get annoyed at a little suggestion. Different women like different things. Helping him eliminate some of the guess work is good for everyone involved.True, if it's not their thing, we just skip it, but I have no expectations for it. I just make sure that it's a tasty experience if they decide to take the southern voyage.Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport
But if the guy is genuinely into it, and I can tell he truly wants me to enjoy it, they accept my suggestions enthusiastically... Originally Posted by YummyMarie
the ones doing it for fun are very open to being informed on what will make me start climbing the walls.... I find it very encouraging how many men just love it. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport