Book by Stephen King...1992...
Now out on Netflix...(September 30...2017)...
submissive gets handcuffed...
dominant has heart attack and dies...
no one knows where you are...
no one can hear you...
you did not hide a handcuff key where you could reach it...
phone is out of reach...
what happens next?...
what are options?...
deglove?...
how long do you wait?...
do those that play this way plan for the worst?...
I have played with restraints, ropes, ties, etc., but not with handcuffs.
The knot I use requires a couple of twists of the wrist to undo. I also have the lady undo herself so she can be at ease.
If we are both having a good time she will not loosen the restraints and if for some reason she needs to move quickly she can.
I have been with a provider who used handcuffs on herself while riding me. My guess is they had a quick release mechanism as she popped them on and off a few times during our session.
While it sounds erotic, it takes a strong comfort level to use handcuffs. Most wont do that on the first, second or third date. I've had more success with silk ties or cloth ribbons that are in a slip knot. They like being restrained that way but can get out easily. That works until they are comfortable with you. Either way, it can get pretty erotic. You may want to try being restrained yourself. Just a thought........
When being bound or doing the binding, safety is always first on my list...Knots can be undone with a quick tug.