Cash in my pocket and lust in my heart

I just don’t get it ladies. You have a potential customer ready to buy. He even lets you pick the time and date; somehow you still drop the ball. I wanted two hours which would have netted this girl one helluva a payday. I’ve kissed a ton of ass for a commission check that size. I have p411 and references so that is not an issue. This would have been my first visit and who knows, I could have been a regular. In business 80% of your business should come from 20% of your customers. The lifetime value of a customer is invaluable. Some of y’all need to take some sales courses or customers service courses. I swear you’d become wildly successful if you just communicated. Sorry for the rant. I just wasted an entire Saturday over this. O well, I saved a grand

I don’t think it’s a good idea to lump every girl together because you had 1 mishap. Things are going to happen you need to learn to just move on.

And by the way it’s also your job to do research on who you’re trying to see, they could have bad behavior like the one you picked. I’m just saying……

But if it’s her screening rules well everybody screens different no matter you have P411 or not, p411 is not the holy grail to screening. Better luck next time

This is absolutely not the first time. I’ve never met a group of more disorganized people. It seems to be a reoccurring problem.

I feel the same way sometimes/lots of times. Flush with cash and generous with it, and can’t even give it away.

https://youtu.be/-jcv6mh0uok?si=B0WeFzBYtWeKF_SU

I feel the same way sometimes/lots of times. Flush with cash and generous with it, and can’t even give it away. Originally Posted by JROD

If I walked into my job and told a sales manager I blew a thousand dollar sale and lost a potential new customer I’d be fired. And rightfully so.

Cry me a river shit happens move on and try again, if this is your cry me a river moment maybe the hobby’s not for you. There’s worse things that can happen.

O well, I saved a grand Originally Posted by Fivestarman

Send her a picture of your pecker & the stack of $$ so she realizes what she missed out on! That will really rubb her raww & teach her a lesson.

Send her a picture of your pecker & the stack of $$ so she realizes what she missed out on! That will really rubb her raww & teach her a lesson. Originally Posted by MarcellusWalluz

I think I will. I’ll report back with an update

Ever thought that maybe you creeped her out? Red flags are red for a reason.

Don't get caught with your pants down!

Cheers and be safe.

I just don’t get it ladies. You have a potential customer ready to buy. He even lets you pick the time and date; somehow you still drop the ball. I wanted two hours which would have netted this girl one helluva a payday. I’ve kissed a ton of ass for a commission check that size. I have p411 and references so that is not an issue. This would have been my first visit and who knows, I could have been a regular. In business 80% of your business should come from 20% of your customers. The lifetime value of a customer is invaluable. Some of y’all need to take some sales courses or customers service courses. I swear you’d become wildly successful if you just communicated. Sorry for the rant. I just wasted an entire Saturday over this. O well, I saved a grand Originally Posted by Fivestarman

They don't do this because they have understanding of basic economics. One other thing the irks me is not only the generally high rate that requires going to 2 ATMs usually, but how the second hour is the same as first. A smart girl, after spending all that time screening and getting ready is coming up short on the appt because no discount on second hour. Pizza places understand economics.

I think I will. I’ll report back with an update Originally Posted by Fivestarman

He is yankin your chain and not in the way you are looking for.

You are preaching to the choir. I call it the OnlyFans syndrome. I recently had a nice hour long session with a cutie three states away. We started with by having some shots. She modeled a cute outfit. In undressed her and we shared a nice finish then had another drink and went at it again. No room. No screening. Just a few days texting back and forth and a video call.

I have a UTR from FB she is fucking gorgeous and loves American men we link a couple times a month for a couple hours and she texts me cute pix in between. $100 a month. Where she is that is goes a lot further than here.

This has been my response to the increase in flakes and frauds. It fills in the gaps nicely in the single times and is not intrusive when I have a steady GF. Girls get mad when you speak on it but its gotten to a point of absurdity if you ask me.

The good providers which are more rare don't have time for new guys and they quote you $$$$$ to see if they can bump somebody else if I wanted to chase pussy like that I am not paying by the hour lol. Right now I have a really cute one back and forth msg me she is a 3 hour drive but I offered to get the room and book 2 hours if she just gives me a solid date. First contact was early June she said give her a couple of weeks. She called me a couple of times over the first month and each time 'next week I will get you a date' and is very sweet but as of today its been 5 days since her last test which literally was 'Hey I got a date for you' and of course I replied within a few minutes 'Cool. Let me know and I will book the room' then crickets. Again. Costs nothing to play the game but this shit is all too regular these days.

Hard to blame them if I could get the same income talking about touching a stranger vs actually doing it would be an easy choice. And of course as mentioned many of them have no clue how to do business. If they weren't banking what they needed it would be different. My solutions works for me and often saves me a lot of money.

trust me, we know when were missing money. it will be the one day that I am really tied up with home life that my phone will be blowing up and I cannot do anything about it but count the dollars go by.

I've also cancelled on someone because my intuition tells me to not go, id rather be safe than sorry. just know there is always an actual reason even though you are not privvy to what that is.

i do sympathize when that happens, time is not to be wasted

trust me, we know when were missing money. it will be the one day that I am really tied up with home life that my phone will be blowing up and I cannot do anything about it but count the dollars go by.

I've also cancelled on someone because my intuition tells me to not go, id rather be safe than sorry. just know there is always an actual reason even though you are not privvy to what that is.

i do sympathize when that happens, time is not to be wasted Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

In my experience for every 1 of you who are doing the job giving great sessions and providing for themselves and their people there are dozens who are flaky and looking for ways to get over on people. The 'hey can you get me a room im broke' followed by 'oh and can I get a ride from the casino?" nonsense. Text you 'can you come see me today' then after you say sure cool don't text back for three days.

I miss the days when TER, TOB, and here were places girls wanted to work for good reviews and you could better weed out the BS. Even a lot of the BackPage girls got reviews and we could get some idea what they were about.

Screening is tough. There's a lot of factors that come into play that I won't go into. However, as Anastasia said, I go by my gut. If something tells me that something is off, I won't bother. My life is extremely valuable and no amount of money will change that. "Not all money is good money." That's the way I see it. Sorry that you had to deal with a shitty situation. On to the next one!