references

References seem to be at times very controversial
It is bad for providers and clients alike when references are not shared properly.
It could be that the two providers dislike each other .
The providers may not know or trust each other.
The provider may be touring
The provider may not like the client
The client may have not seen a provider for a long period of time

Can there not be a place on eccie where references are placed by their cleints eccie handle?
It could be under their profile or a page could be made like the browse showcase.
You click on their name and it could have a list of providers they have seen by date and location
There could be a section on his name that only providers could see .Good -Bad or any comments.( examples Guy was a jerk- he tried to make me come down on price or He was a gentleman and gave a great tip.,guy could not get it up ) lol
The client could have a choice in having a reference page , if he chose not to then it would be on him to get the proper info that a provider would require .
Some providers may not except this as their only means of checking

I know that there is a lot of good and bad if this happened
providers still always can comminicate with each other

If you have any comments good or bad please post it

Aspd used to allow providers to give ok's to hobbyists. Just a wild guess, but I bet eccie had a reason for not adopting that practice, kinda like the policy of not allowing providers to post their rates in their profiles.

MudPuppy, your idea has been implemented on another site--preferred411.com.

It's a good idea for Eccie, as well...but I have a feeling that what TestSpin thinks is probably the case. That type of information on Eccie has become more and more limited--such as rates in the showcases, etc. We'll just have to work with it...the powers that be feel it's necessary.

As far as openly sharing references – I'm pretty sure that everyone already knows how I feel about this. It's SO frustrating when one hits a brick wall, because the reference you need is from someone who doesn't consider you or your friends to be their friend.

Denying references out of spite is silly, and totally unnecessary... not to mention highly unprofessional. It jeopardizes the safety of EVERYONE here – and despite our differences, are we not supposed to be a team??

Despite the recent problems, I will continue to provide references to anyone that seeks them. I feel that sharing references is an integral part of the service that I provide to my clients. It is their right to see whomever they choose – it's never any lady's right to deny clients a date with someone that they want to see, simply because of personal problems that exist between the ladies.

I wish that everyone could see the big picture – and keep personal feelings out of it. The bottom line is a strong community and safety for everyone. An unsafe situation equals potential problems for all of us...because we are all connected, and when one person is at risk – we are all at risk.

You are correct miss GD but some provider don't see it that way and I speak on personal experience

And it will always be a Problem...... Jealousy,cattiness, Immaturity and Greed.....

Welcome to the Hobby!!!

But I must say Not all Providers are like this but NO matter where you go I bet you will find a few that are Thank Goodness the Majority of Us don't have this problem and think about the well being of others. I don't care how much I don't care for a certain Lady or her Ways or Management, I always will and have provided a Reference and I expect the same!!

you'll have no problem seein my big picture.

Unfortunately this Problem exists!!

Jealousy, Cattiness, Immaturity and Greed.....

Welcome to the Hobby!!

I have to say NO matter where you go you have the above problems I'm a touring Provider so I run across this everywhere but One thing for sure is NOT all providers are Like this and I'm very Thankful!!!

I do know that no matter if I care for You, Your friends, Or Your Managment or whatever the case I will always give References and expect the same!!!

Exactly, Miss Sydney! I'm very grateful to know that I can count on you and all of our other friendly providers for a reference whenever I need one. Needless to say, you can always count on me!

Ooops sorry I posted sooo many times....

Exactly, Miss Sydney! I'm very grateful to know that I can count on you and all of our other friendly providers for a reference whenever I need one. Needless to say, you can always count on me! Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Thanks Ms. Lady and Yes YOU have always been a blessing to work With....

:mf_ lustslow:

And Your IDEA is implemented with DC as well!!

I just wondered up on this conversation, but can say no matter where I have traveled, or what provider has requested, Ginger has always, and promptly provide other providers a positive response when they have requested a reference before seeing me. I always check with Ginger Doll to make sure providers have screened before I will move forward in seeing them. There is no question that she is a quality provider and ALWAYS done her part to help other legitimate providers be successful. I have several quality providers here that I have on my to do list as soon as $ allows. I am thankful that they have all prescreened using Ginger from my reference list and she responded just as described above. Brittany and Sydney being two of them. You girls keep your phones handed, I'll be calling soon.

I would like to take this opportunity to publicly say THANK YOU to Ginger Doll for her professional work ethics. That along with her very charming, sexy, and ability to provide this hobbiest with an always perfect experience is why she will be considered as my ATF.

Furthermore I have no reason to believe that the very same can be expected from Sydney and Brittney. And I look forward to adding you two girls to my ATF list as well, but I'll warn you two, Ginger has set the bar extremely high. LOL

I hope the best for all of our quality AR providers who do their part in keeping us all safe!!!

I just wondered up on this conversation, but can say no matter where I have traveled, or what provider has requested, Ginger has always, and promptly provide other providers a positive response when they have requested a reference before seeing me. I always check with Ginger Doll to make sure providers have screened before I will move forward in seeing them. There is no question that she is a quality provider and ALWAYS done her part to help other legitimate providers be successful. I have several quality providers here that I have on my to do list as soon as $ allows. I am thankful that they have all prescreened using Ginger from my reference list and she responded just as described above. Brittany and Sydney being two of them. You girls keep your phones handed, I'll be calling soon.

I would like to take this opportunity to publicly say THANK YOU to Ginger Doll for her professional work ethics. That along with her very charming, sexy, and ability to provide this hobbiest with an always perfect experience is why she will be considered as my ATF.

Furthermore I have no reason to believe that the very same can be expected from Sydney and Brittney. And I look forward to adding you two girls to my ATF list as well, but I'll warn you two, Ginger has set the bar extremely high. LOL

I hope the best for all of our quality AR providers who do their part in keeping us all safe!!! Originally Posted by Yellowdawg49

+1 Dawg......well said.