When is it ladies...

That you know what kind of visit you're going to have with a NEW client? When I contact a new lady, I get nervous, anxious, a little frightened with the risk and excited to meet, but I can usually tell what kind of visit it will be when I finally talk to them on the phone. Us hobbiests also have the benefit of your showcase to enlighten us. The ladies, on the other hand, do not have that benefit. So when or what is it? Is it the prose he uses with the pm's? His handle? His voice with the first phone call? Maybe it's the first sight? Possibly the first kiss or his pheromone he emits? Is it during activity and you realize "this guy has skills"? Or is it afterwards your preconceptions were all wrong and it was a great visit. I hope you ladies have not become jaded and look at all new encounters as "training a new puppy". Feel free to chime in...this will be fun and interesting to hear the responses.

I always have the highest of hopes on any of my encounters. I always get great references from the ladies that I ask for verification from. I have a great feel for what I'm about to encounter. I always encourage everyone to call me and chat during free time.. .get to know me a little first if at all possible. I like to have some sort of rapport with the gentleman. I'm a joker, a laugher, a smiler, and love to have good TIMER. For those that have met me, they know this. They know that I have ALWAYS greeted my guy at the door, make up on, hair fixed, nice short skirt, thigh highs, tight top, and A warm NICE tight hug with a kiss on the lips. Just have found it puts everyone at ease. Let's face it, TOUCH is why you hobby and touch is what WE provide. So, why not start it off with a nice soft touch of a kiss with a big smile attached.

Just always be in a good mood. If you're feeling OFF that day, ladies, don't schedule with someone. I just have the mindframe that every session I have will be memorable for BOTH of us. I find something good in everyone I meet.

Amber Rain

WoW! I knew there was a reason I wanted to see you Amber!

Amber, you are such a sweetheart... I know you made me feel special on our initial meeting... you are definitely one of the ladies I will see more than once...

Amber you are very correct speaking with a new client on the phone first DEFINITELY allows each of you to drop your guard a bit. It gives you the opportunity to get a feel for each others personalities and what expectations you may have with one another. And it definitely gives you more opportunity to find what it is you can enjoy about what one another.

Nice to see somebody gets it!! *smile*

X O Sadie

I feel excited,a bit nervous(butterflies)

Safire Sweet

I get very excited and nervous at the same time but all I can do is hope that our time together is the best time you ever had

I don't really get nervous, I am fortunate to have a personality that knows no strangers. I know I have had several show up nervous and I send that out the door as they enter.

I can usually tell on the phone or in email if we will click. I also agree with Amber I would not do a appointment if I was feeling off. But I enjoy what I do, the day I don't... I will stop.

WoW! I knew there was a reason I wanted to see you Amber! Originally Posted by FishGuy13

Come see me FISH... I'll welcome you with open legs, mouth, and arms. HEHEHEE.. gladly. Would love to see you. Let me know when my love.

Amber, you are such a sweetheart... I know you made me feel special on our initial meeting... you are definitely one of the ladies I will see more than once... Originally Posted by flanker1017

I enjoyed our meeting intensely. I'm glad you did as well. I can't wait to see you again soon. You're one of my fave's I've encountered. Stay in touch. See you again very soon.

I always am nervous meeting a lady. Even more so if the lady is one that I have conversed with on other SHMBs and known the handle for years. But I am a dork what can I say.

That you know what kind of visit you're going to have with a NEW client? When I contact a new lady, I get nervous, anxious, a little frightened with the risk and excited to meet, but I can usually tell what kind of visit it will be when I finally talk to them on the phone. Us hobbiests also have the benefit of your showcase to enlighten us. The ladies, on the other hand, do not have that benefit. So when or what is it? Is it the prose he uses with the pm's? His handle? His voice with the first phone call? Maybe it's the first sight? Possibly the first kiss or his pheromone he emits? Is it during activity and you realize "this guy has skills"? Or is it afterwards your preconceptions were all wrong and it was a great visit. I hope you ladies have not become jaded and look at all new encounters as "training a new puppy". Feel free to chime in...this will be fun and interesting to hear the responses. Originally Posted by Lunytunz

I'm always a little nervous meeting a new client, but I also pride myself on having the skills to put anyone at ease. So even if I'm feeling nervous I want him to feel comfortable. Putting someone at ease makes ME feel comfortable. I listen to his voice on the phone, his mannerisms and also what he puts in his e mail and tells me about himself. Despite what the stereotypes say that us providers 'only care about the money', there HAS to be some kind of chemistry between the provider AND the client, otherwise, the session won't go well. I always am in a good mood, and if I'm not, then I won't work that day because I'm not going to let my mood rub off on a client who is taking the time to pay me and then I'm not going to give 100% of my best. Luckily, since I have another day job and don't rely on escorting as my sole source of income, I have many breaks in the week and keep my clients primarily to long-time regulars. This new year 2012 will see my first new clients in different states and cities, and I'm really excited about meeting new friends in these places, which makes me even more enthusiastic and excited.

I certainly hope that it shows in my posts here on the board as well. I'm thrilled to be venturing out for the first time in years to meet new clients/friends.

It's interesting for me personally because I try to 'envision' what a client might LOOK like based on his voice, and I'm wrong a lot of times. A older man might sound young, and a young man might sound old. I envision people and they come to my incall ( or I go to them) and the person is totally different from what I envisioned him to be. MOST men I see are average to attractive, sometimes very attractive, although 'looks' have little to do with a good session. I've had a few unattractive ( what by society might be considered not handsome) men give me so many orgasms, it left me needing an asthma inhaler. And then there were a few 'handsome' guys who were so terrible that it left me wanting more. So it all depends.

I for one just believe in this: have a good positive attitude, love what you do, be friendly and fun, and the rest will follow. Not to mention repeat clients

I always am nervous meeting a lady. Even more so if the lady is one that I have conversed with on other SHMBs and known the handle for years. But I am a dork what can I say. Originally Posted by pyramider

Yeah but see I love it when men openly ARE nervous...I love putting them at ease and hugging them, small-talking, snuggling, and really, really trying to relax them. I mean I get nervous too, if I don't know someone, and it helps me put myself at ease by giving a good tender session.

Sounds like the first phone call seems to be the first quality contact point. I'll have to start working on my phone skills. Sadie or amber, when can I call you?

ANYTIME baby... anytime.. my number's on the showcase.. feel free... Can't wait to hear from you.