Best way to find provider for a couple?

My wife and I are looking for a provider who would be into sessions with us both. We've had threesomes and other couples we've been with but are new to the hobby. We can't seem to find a provider who will see couples and also would like to know how we go about the initial screening since we're new. Any advice/suggestions?

No name; Join date TODAY. No references and no encounters.

Certainly you understand you will be met with trepidation to some degree. Lack of experience is going to be your biggest obstacle, most especially because there has been an intro of sorts to your SO.

Trouble comes in droves. Trust comes in time.

Maybe go about it more SLOWLY and SOLO for the time being. You are honestly at an extreme disadvantage at the moment. Rough post on which to give suggestions.

Best of luck.

No name; Join date TODAY. No references and no encounters.

Certainly you understand you will be met with trepidation to some degree. Lack of experience is going to be your biggest obstacle, most especially because there has been an intro of sorts to your SO.

Trouble comes in droves. Trust comes in time.

Maybe go about it more SLOWLY and SOLO for the time being. You are honestly at an extreme disadvantage at the moment. Rough post on which to give suggestions.

Best of luck. Originally Posted by January Maye

or let her solo just a thought

I prefer to see some experience on behalf of the couples I meet with. An established hobbyist knows what to expect from me, and has likely had an in-depth conversation with his lady about feelings, expectations, and the overall experience. I also prefer to speak with both partners prior to meeting, as I've had my time wasted by guys who are just trying to set it up as a fantasy to rub one out to. I agree with what has been said already. Get some practice on your own before forming a team

I've also encountered a lot of difficulty finding a provider who is comfortable with couples, even amongst the ladies that I am established with. I'm sure it'll cause a ruckus but after a provider insinuated that my wife was too ugly to play with us it occurred to me that maybe I am barking up the wrong tree, so I've given up for the time being. I hope you have better luck than I did. Thankfully the wife has no issues finding playmates for herself so all is not lost Lol.

at a bar I sent a provider over to a couple.
after that they saw her for a few years
Till he said the L word to the wrong one in the heat of the...

ahem never do that

I enjoy couples play and screen as I would any newbie. I speak to both parties in depth to be sure chemistry will be there. I can't go down on just any chick.